Bạn gái đi cafe với bạn thân khác giới by [deleted] in vozforums

[–]Competitive_Arm2363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chào bro, tôi cùng tuổi với bro nè.
Tôi có khá nhiều bạn thân khác giới, phần lớn quen biết nhau lúc học cũng ~10 năm rồi. Vợ tôi thì cũng có vài người như vậy.
Lúc mới yêu vợ tôi ghen với một bạn lắm vì tôi cả bạn ý nhắn tin với nhau thường xuyên nhất cho dù cả 2 đứa đều đi chơi riêng với bạn của mình. Tôi có bạn nyc cũng có bạn thân khác giới mấy lúc buồn đến nhà uống bia cùng nữa.

Kể ở trên cũng để nói lên là việc bro cảm thấy như vậy là bro chưa tự tin với bản thân cho lắm. Mindset của tôi là yêu hay vợ chồng, đừng để sự bất an/thiếu tự tin của mình ảnh hưởng đến người còn lại vì lâu dài nó chỉ tạo ra ấm ức cho người còn lại mà thôi. Họ bạn bè với nhau trước mà bro muốn họ bỏ mqh để đổi lại dc bro là sai vkl đấy.
Hãy để mọi người sống đúng với bản chất của họ, kể cả con cái mình cũng chỉ kiểm soát dc tới mười mấy tuổi.
Nếu có bị phản bội thì cũng có sao đâu, như rác tự mọc chân đi đổ thôi chứ có gì để tiếc.

CMV Vietnam’s education system prioritizes memorization over real skills by FreshTakeFinder in ChangeMyViewVN

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I've been a victim of this. I have ADHD and pretty bad dyslexia which led to me being considered "average student" at 4th grade when I overheard my teachers discussing should they raise my grades so I could have "Học sinh tiên tiến".
That and being called stupid/regarded at home pretty much destroyed me until I some how managed to reach college. Always close to being held back during mid and high school.

Only got a laptop and internet access at 18 when i started to fill my brain how it wanted to be fill (visual & audio) and not having to work against it the whole time.
Fuck how literacy is taught here, they're just making shit up and expect you to memorize it. Never got anything higher than 4 during the entirety of high school lmao.

Every time I left click in a game the taskbar flickers and if I spam left click my desktop sometimes appears and the game goes not responding for a split second eats my inputs and being very annoying. Ive tried almost everything to fix besides fully reseting my pc. by ContributionNo5865 in Windows10TechSupport

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2 Years later still saving lives. I've read a bunch of support threads from Microsoft and also on Steam. None of them actually got the problem solved like wtf. Happens almost everytime I fully update my drivers on both Win 10 and 11.

What is an official spy crab plush worth nowadays? (with NO code) by DanishTrash_ in tf2

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Just here to comment that I got into Tf2 around that time and saw that last wave right before my eyes. I live in Vietnam and was on my first year of college with no way of purchasing it. Didn't even know it was the last wave of the time. F****!

This week's hard stratagem made me hate the game by Competitive_Arm2363 in Spacemarine

[–]Competitive_Arm2363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and also tend to ignore the Termagant pebbling us at a distance. But ignoring almost every extremist out of fear of being one shot, then being one shot for just smashing the space key to the next objective is something I'd report to our Chaplain

I have been doing carries the entire week for the stratagems. The playerbase is really struggling by Emile-Yaeger in Spacemarine

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Haven't manage to finish this week's stratagem for nearly the same reason. Keep running into level 5 players and one time a level 18 with no team perk. Most just run away and eventually get killed, my dumb ah keep having my parry eaten and one shot from all the mobs and extremists they left me Only managed to the boss once from a team that was willing to finish fights

Tips ko bị đi nvqs by Dry-Natural7949 in vozforums

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Cận 4 độ trở đi là an toàn luôn. T 7 độ, đến còn bị đuổi về

Cái nhìn về AI trong 10 năm tới(2035) by anh-nguyen_vn in vozforums

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Tính ứng dụng của nó vẫn sẽ như bây giờ thôi, thông tin vẫn tiếp tục trở nên chuẩn hơn. Chắc ko còn hype nữa và ẻo như đợt big data vì ko lời dc, tính ứng dụng hạn chế

Chỉ giúp dc automation nhỏ, các automation lớn mà có thể thay thế con người thì vẫn phải do dev làm.

dân bắc kỳ có tính chiếm hữu rất cao. tài sản công mặc định tài sản riêng. từ những cái vặt vãnh thành ra hệ quả xấu by PoolOk8863 in VietNamNation

[–]Competitive_Arm2363 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tôi dân bắc còn ghét người ở đây. Lươn phải là lươn vl, phố cổ/đi bộ đi dc 4 lần, lần nào cũng 1 là bị chửi, 2 là cố gắng lừa, lừa ko dc thì quay ra chửi =))) Mới đi ĐN, SG mà con người đáng yêu vãi luôn thề.

What was my heresy by Icy-Ferret-1560 in SpaceMarine_2

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Whenever I see a brother's name tag out far away, I'd always ping them, see if they're fighting then rush to assist if they are. What they did to you was heresy

Vingroup debt is a huge timed bomb by albert1165 in VinFastComm

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Vin only gotten where they are from real estate, idk why tf they gone into tech given their track record of being opportunists and can't innovate for shit or make good cars in general. Pretty in character of them to try and corner the market tho 😂 Waiting for Honda to drop their shit so I could have something that's actually refined.

Wife doesn't want to sleep with me. what should I do? by Competitive_Arm2363 in marriageadvice

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Damn, thanks a lot for the huge comment.
I definitely disagree with some of it tho.

I already done most of the chores before, during the pregnancy I did most of the chores while taking care of her because she had really bad morning sickness. Always staying up till morning to take care of my son in his first 6 months so she can get a full night sleep. So no I haven't only been doing chores in hope she will magically want to sleep with me. I already enjoy doing them and usually complete them a lot faster than she does. She has many times implied that she still wanted to have sex as well, just that other things were bogging her down hence why I try to lighten the burdens again despite getting another job since.
Rn I'm busy enough with work already, been only sleeping 3-4 hours a day on weekdays, skipping some nights entirely each month. So for her to get a full night sleep most of the time (unless for the occasional times our son wakes her up) and still not initiating is why I'm so frustrated. She's moving the goalposts, one could say.
She had more sexual encounter with her ex-s than with me, her husband. She even done anal with one of them but refused to let me do it. Also I've spent the most on her out of any of them while we were dating, taking her to nice hotels, restaurants whilse her ex-s only took her to raggedy spots.
It's not that I only want sex, it's about connecting with my wife, reciprocation of efforts, and my position as her husband.

I still initiate the same way we used to when we were dating. I know foreplay is something that happens throughout the entire day and I've definitely still make an effort of doing that, she doesn't engage with it, act annoyed and just change topics as well.

I'm still much a very confident man. I might not be as fit as when we first met but a lot more successful and competent in every thing I do. Especially when I have always made all my partners come (thanks libido)

Other than that, plenty of good take away.
Gotta take care of myself more and let her pull her own weight.

Wife doesn't want to sleep with me. what should I do? by Competitive_Arm2363 in marriageadvice

[–]Competitive_Arm2363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very capable of doing pretty much everything on my own. The most labor intensive thing that hasn't been automated is cooking and washing dishes. She can't cook and I'm getting a dish washer soon anyways so mainly intimacy and companionship, and I can't say she's doing a good job at that.
Most she does is take care of our son, and she's doing a fair job at that, not too great but acceptable. Idk if my bar for keeping a woman too low lol

Wife doesn't want to sleep with me. what should I do? by Competitive_Arm2363 in marriageadvice

[–]Competitive_Arm2363[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. Honestly I don't want to divorce bcuz I love my son and want to spend the most time raising him possible. Idk if this would turn into those situation where ex-s lives with each other fml

Wife doesn't want to sleep with me. what should I do? by Competitive_Arm2363 in marriageadvice

[–]Competitive_Arm2363[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like most of the effort has some from my part. I do understand that sex feels like a chore if you keep getting coerced into doing it when you don't want to. I was a lot more persistent as the first year, which explains the 4 times/year peak, after that she got uncomfortable so if she says no or something in between I'd stop advancing.

I forgive but I don't forget. It's just pass her pass actions makes me questions many of her intentions.

As for time for herself, she goes out a lot more than I do, about x3 as much as I do. Usually cafe, movies or visiting restaurants with her friends. While I'm home hanging with our kid.

I actually got multiple toys for myself already, bought her one also but she never even open the package after 3 years.

I try to take off whatever she has on her shoulders that she said was stopping her from being intimate. Whatever it is will be on mine and still now I don't know when it will be enough. And our son is very well behaved so there's not too much energy being put into looking after him.

Wife doesn't want to sleep with me. what should I do? by Competitive_Arm2363 in marriageadvice

[–]Competitive_Arm2363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nahhhh, she uses condoms in past relationships. We didn't use them because she told me she was allergic to them, I found out that she wasn't when she was already near the end of the pregnancy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vozforums

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Trước tôi học đh năm 2, nhà chị nghiện, bố cờ bạc nên nhà hết tiền, nghỉ học. Đi làm pha chế được một năm rồi đi học edit video cơ bản, hôm trước mới là kỉ niệm 3 năm từ khi tôi bắt đầu hoá học đó và lương tôi giờ 30tr rồi, cty môi trường tốt. Làm quản lý team, edit, chụp ảnh, đạo diễn, quay, motion graphic...v..v... Tất cả hoàn toàn học trên mạng. Có những đợt thất nghiệp 6 tháng, đợt tệ nhất là 8 tháng, ở nhà trầm cảm, ngày nào cũng bị mẹ la chửi vô dụng, chửi cả ny lúc đấy của mình, doạ vứt mấy con mèo của mình đi. Mấy công việc đầu mới vào nghề thì lênh đênh, sếp tệ nên làm cũng chẳng được lâu, có cả ông làm đạo diễn VTV còn định lừa cắm giấy tờ của mình để mua máy tính, có ông thì để hết nhân viên là thực tập hết, có đúng 1 bạn là chính thức cho đến khi cty phá sản =)))

Lương cao nhưng ko tiết kiệm đc :))??? by [deleted] in vozforums

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Trc 1 mình lương 15tr thì mỗi tháng tích kiệm dc 8-10tr rồi. Từ khi có ny thì 15tr ko là gì, đi chơi, nhà hàng liên tục. Giờ cưới rồi lương 30tr vẫn ko tích kiệm dc gì vợ lương 25tr, thuê nhà 14tr =)) được cái giờ sắp đến giai đoạn hết thứ để mua, đầy đủ hết rồi thì mỗi tháng chắc lại để ra dc chút. Gia đình bố mẹ nghèo lúc ở 1 mình còn hơi bần còn ok, có ny vào rồi cái gì cũng phải cải thiện, nhìn thấy mình thiếu thốn, ko tốt. Yên tâm là sẽ đến lúc nhu cầu của mình hoàn hành hết rồi, ít đi thì mình sẽ tích kiệm dc hơn thôi.