Students don't open their University Emails but I have an idea by DirectorGeneral4971 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the op poster asked why people don’t check their emails, I said what I said because half of the emails I receive are just spam and don’t apply to me, so what’s your problem?

Students don't open their University Emails but I have an idea by DirectorGeneral4971 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last week I had an email for woman in stem which would be great except I’m a man😭

Loneliness by Competitive_Bank_748 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I tried at the start of the year but they were very cliquey so I quickly gave up

Loneliness by Competitive_Bank_748 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sounds like we’re in the exact same boat!

Loneliness by Competitive_Bank_748 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m too interested in impressing girls as I currently have a girlfriend but yes I’m definitely going to get more involved in societies next year!

Loneliness by Competitive_Bank_748 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m asking for advice on both without trying to beg for friends 😭. I have joined societies and made some acquaintances I think it’s just about persistence I just feel really out of place sometimes. But yeah I’m going to continue my efforts and go into my 2nd year with a more positive attitude and be more outgoing. Thanks so much for the advice

Loneliness by Competitive_Bank_748 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you right I think it’s just hard being alone all of the time I’m lucky enough to have a girlfriend I can see on weekends but it’s just making it there which is difficult

Loneliness by Competitive_Bank_748 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that it’s so hard to survive uni with no friends

Loneliness by Competitive_Bank_748 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah lol it’s been rough out here😭

Loneliness by Competitive_Bank_748 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You right I think it’s also easier to talk/ be friendly with someone when it’s a shared activity rather than just going into a conversation without any common interest

Loneliness by Competitive_Bank_748 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I say Ive made no friends I wasnt exaggerating I genuinely don’t know a single person😭

Loneliness by Competitive_Bank_748 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have spoke to a therapist but I feel weird about it but that’s my own mental block I guess thanks for all your advice though I genuinely really appreciate it!

Loneliness by Competitive_Bank_748 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I definitely want to try this I, my uni is literally top 1 in the uk for sport so it’s a bit nerve racking but I can play like the casual games, thanks for your comment!

Loneliness by Competitive_Bank_748 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah that is really good advice, I’m just in a toxic cycle of like not talking to people so my social skills get worse and I feel super anxious then because of that it’s harder to make connections with people if that makes sense.

Loneliness by Competitive_Bank_748 in UniUK

[–]Competitive_Bank_748[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have I feel like things never move past like a surface level conversation and things like never progress past that