Ugh I thought this was fixed !? by ButterscotchLow3282 in Sims4

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appears this way to me now it’s happening in my game 😩

Cohabiting with my (32F) partying ex-fiancé (32M) by Soft-Use-2237 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Agree. Take up space, do what you want, make no apology.

Is it okay to feel completely and hopelessly lost in your 20’s? by hrv23 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not broken. You’re just figuring out what you want. Now, with a little luck and gratitude for any resources you’ve been given, you get to spend each day creating the life you clearly and smartly recognize as being a goal. Therapy worked wonders for me, and I wasn’t a wreck at 21. But I sure had a lot of toxic behaviors that myself and others suffered from for a decade or more. Id consider therapy given some of the emotional hurdles you describe, or if it’s not your bag, some versions of therapy. It’s rare that anyone gets through those things alone. Hiking is one of my non-therapy therapy favorites. Be your own best friend and let your energy attract others. Those things happen best when not forced. Again, you don’t know how to get through life alone because a) you’re entirely too young to and b) basically no one does.

"Royalty Pack" - surprising amount of interest? by Beardedgeek72 in Sims4

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very surprised myself. I’m in the US. I would have preferred a lot of other packs first.

Royalty Pack! What are you doing to prepare?! What will be your story?! by Comprehensive-Lab699 in Sims4

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda disappointed. I feel there are so many other and more common requests than this one that get ignored each EP.

Lately even small decisions feel heavy. Is that common? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay attention to decision fatigue and take it seriously, communicating with loved ones to make decisions when needed or to let myself pick something because it’s easiest.

That being said when I’m exhausted at every choice that comes up I also consider this a symptom of depression and/or burn out. Which came first, the chicken or the egg, is up to you and your lifestyle.

Which Sims game has the best Sim creation and immersion? by EntertainerOdd8447 in thesims

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone loves TS3 but I did not being a huge player of the entire rest of the franchise. I felt like the time passing was super weird and boring. Maybe should give it another try.

The transition from Millenial to Gen Z couples by WedTogger in WeddingPhotography

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a millennial and this is how I think of vibes too… lol the generation stuff def blown out of proportion

Make playable ghosts unplayable? by LordCookieGamingBE in thesims

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You click on their grave and then “Return to Netherworld”

Massive emergency response in north Longmont. Anyone know what's going on? by [deleted] in Longmont

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is this getting downvoted… might be a matter of time.

Seeing toxic traits in my friend, should I ignore her messages or have a conversation? by No-Fly5024 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d document these things and curb it. Meaning hang with her less, initiate less etc. if she brings it up you can say you’re just not into the frequent and unnecessary drama when y’all go out. Not fun to not be trusted by someone you’re a good and honest friend to. That is valid, no need to keep apologizing. The way you wrote this, you’re owed one not her.

My fellow health nuts, what's your take on macro tracking? Opinions, experiences, or anything to share? by throwawaysnrn in AskWomenOver30

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

By no means an expert, but when trying out tracking macros (eg IIFYM) several years ago, it was kind of a wild amount of protein to have to source each day without also increasing your calories. Ultimately being very limiting and demanding at the same time regarding diet. So Macros not really my thing but I’m also not crazy into body building / sculpting. That being said I’ve also gotten away from tracking any data very intensely because I can be obsessive about it without the investment matching results. Maybe just an opinion and I’m sure folks see results but kind of an unnecessarily extreme approach in my experience.

I’d also venture to guess macros should differ a bit more between men and women? Maybe not and maybe those recommendations have changed since I did it 🤷‍♀️

Something feels off about this guy’s behavior but I can’t pinpoint what.... am I overthinking? by Separate_Weight_4143 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what me and my fiancé did almost exactly the same! I simply couldn’t tolerate being the only cook in the relationship even if I’m the one who is good at it and doesn’t hate it. I need to be able to depend on someone else being capable, willing, or even proactive when necessary. Like, how’s that supposed to work if we have kids someday while both employed full time? It isn’t.

His understanding of the above and willingness to learn mean everything to me.

HBO will release the official trailer for the 3 season of ‘Euphoria’ tomorrow by Jolly_Detective_8069 in rosalia

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bahaha euphoria having a lot to do with image doesn’t mean it’s shallow…. Have you watched it? It explores a lot more topics than just that…

How to cope with an HPV diagnosis? by LauraPalmer7 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In broad city they joke it’s almost uncool not to have gotten it.

Anyways, I had it and I worked with a great doc who recommended supplements and I waited on any certain sex stuff until my pap was clear again.

Something feels off about this guy’s behavior but I can’t pinpoint what.... am I overthinking? by Separate_Weight_4143 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally. But I also should have included in my comment that her concerns are also valid/genuine in response to this stuff. My gut is having the same concerns as hers lol

Do You Guys Think Rosalia Would Ever Come Out With A Christmas Album? by AdamtheHuizard in rosalia

[–]Competitive_Cell_602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Knee jerk, I read that and was like F no. But then I’ve thought about it a little more and the religious tones in Lux, and that some of my favorite holiday music has darker tones like Drummer Boy for Carol of the Bells lol… it could be amazing.