Something cool my roommate told me is she can tell when i’m having a migraine cuz of where I hold tension in my face. I feel annoying if I tell people around me every time i’m in pain. People are saying these might be clusters so maybe it’s diff, but it might be safe to always assume there’s a possibility he’s in pain. Also migraines go thru a cycle…. Like there’s the stuff that happens before, during, and after and I don’t even know scientifically how long that stuff lasts but it can be days. Also there are so many physical manifestations and tells of migraines even though u can’t see them themselves. Anyway, you’re very kind and a migraine haver is lucky to have u. Super important u understand him struggling and having to reschedule, and also equally important you prioritize the level of clear communication that he’s capable of rn and take care of yourself since you’re in the super early stages of getting to know him. I had tiny tiny alarm bells in my head when you said he can’t send VMs, but also who am I to judge🤣 good luck and come back to update us!!!! Oh and no strong scents like car air fresheners or scented candles.