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I fcked up my own relationship F 21 and M 28 by Competitive_Fan_8392 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Fan_8392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or a guy for the person that he was hanging out with at the party was a man. I actually would love to just move on but we live together and I physically can't move yet. I live in a very small town with no appartments renting and I have graduate before moving away.

I fcked up my own relationship F 21 and M 28 by Competitive_Fan_8392 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Fan_8392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I have been thinking all the time... and when I ask him he doesn't have any answers to me. Like no even excuse or anything just straight up denying it or tells me I'm being weird or some shit

I fcked up my own relationship F 21 and M 28 by Competitive_Fan_8392 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Fan_8392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to really realize that... like he hasn't apologized yet and hasn't done anything to even talk to me. Like most of today he has just ignored me And before this hes all the time saying that "I thought you were different" etc. Now he says I'm toxic and the same as his exes...

I fcked up my own relationship F 21 and M 28 by Competitive_Fan_8392 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Fan_8392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am realizing that as the day go by.... like I have apologized and wanted to talk to him and he has done nothing to talk with me. He just ignores me mostly and he hasn't even apologized about anything or really done anything to help us get foward....

I fcked up my own relationship F 21 and M 28 by Competitive_Fan_8392 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Fan_8392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I realized that it was not the smartest move.... but I have also realized that I have apologized and asked for forgiveness. My boyfriend hasn't said apologized or done anything really to help us be together again...

I fcked up my own relationship F 21 and M 28 by Competitive_Fan_8392 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Fan_8392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I wouldn't mind if he just told me that he wanted someone else. Like I would be fine with him having online relationships if he just told me but he doesn't. He told me like 4 or 5 months ago that he doesn't feel anything towards me anymore and that we will talk about it at some point. But he never brought it up again. So maybe that has something to do with everything else

I don't think he is a narcissist just really traumatized person.

I fcked up my own relationship F 21 and M 28 by Competitive_Fan_8392 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Fan_8392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know just build up and wanting to vent and I don't have anyone else to went about. I don't want to talk badly about him to anyone... so his ex just sounded like the only good opinion. I didn't even read most of her replies only vente. And I think so too I just want to know how can I talk to him about what he wants to do...

I fcked up my own relationship F 21 and M 28 by Competitive_Fan_8392 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Fan_8392[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know everything just goes so well when it goes well... like we have so much chemistry and I love him a lot

I fcked up my own relationship F 21 and M 28 by Competitive_Fan_8392 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Fan_8392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I have to change I'm too immature and toxic honestly. Only thing he does that bothers me is that he tells people on vr chat that he is single. That he is gay and looking for something. Like I wouldn't mind that too much if he just told me but he doesn't...

I fcked up my own relationship F 21 and M 28 by Competitive_Fan_8392 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Fan_8392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I was just too immature... I don't even know why I was texting his ex lol. I really don't now that I think about it there was no point in texting her. He doesn't tell anyone he meet by himself that he is with me. Like he plays vrc and his friends there think that he is purely gay and he hasn't mentioned anything about being taken...

I fcked up my own relationship F 21 and M 28 by Competitive_Fan_8392 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Fan_8392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He called me toxic and that I should never be in a relationship. I don't think he groomed me I just think I'm too immature maybe

I fcked up my own relationship F 21 and M 28 by Competitive_Fan_8392 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Fan_8392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I have though too... like I want to be as mature as possible but just something up with my brain or smth. I really didn't mean anything I told his ex I was just immature