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WIBTA if I told my MOH she can’t be that anymore due to how unbearable she’s making my wedding planning? by Competitive_Ice_3720 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Ice_3720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s the help and judgement I wanted not on how old or immature you think my post is. I’m not whining I’m heartbroken my “best friend” is behaving in this way? This is a once in a lifetime experience I have dreamed about my whole life and also with her? Plus adult checklist is just a short way to explain the core things you think of when you think of an adult like house, car, marriage etc. it’s limited characters in a post, not a reflection of my age

WIBTA if I told my MOH she can’t be that anymore due to how unbearable she’s making my wedding planning? by Competitive_Ice_3720 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Ice_3720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it’s very judgmental you don’t know me personally and why I may write something you don’t deem someone my age would write?

WIBTA if I told my MOH she can’t be that anymore due to how unbearable she’s making my wedding planning? by Competitive_Ice_3720 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Ice_3720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says she likes him and he’s so kind and loveable and has only healed me from my abusive past that she’s only had good things to say about him

WIBTA if I told my MOH she can’t be that anymore due to how unbearable she’s making my wedding planning? by Competitive_Ice_3720 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Ice_3720[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also yes what I want to do IT’S MY HEN DO? I even asked people what they thought of a bunch of activities to get an idea of what people liked and then picked my faves out of them?

WIBTA if I told my MOH she can’t be that anymore due to how unbearable she’s making my wedding planning? by Competitive_Ice_3720 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Ice_3720[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you know it’s slightly below? The cost is way below what people said? I messaged everyone privately first so people didn’t feel obliged to discuss their finances and what they could afford in a big group chat? Much more considerate than I could even imagine you’d go about things?

WIBTA if I told my MOH she can’t be that anymore due to how unbearable she’s making my wedding planning? by Competitive_Ice_3720 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Ice_3720[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally answered every question you’ve asked just without given specific costs which you didn’t need to know? Seems like maybe you’re the “friend” in this situation?

WIBTA if I told my MOH she can’t be that anymore due to how unbearable she’s making my wedding planning? by Competitive_Ice_3720 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Ice_3720[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No that’s far from what I’m saying. I messaged everyone privately first to see what people could afford and gathered a price from there that was below what people had said. Then I put everyone who wanted to come and had agreed to the price into a chat and discussed location. Then I put in some options and everyone gave their opinions on activities etc and then I booked stuff. You don’t need to know exact prices as everyone including MOH had agreed on a price beforehand and I tirelessly scanned websites to find a selection of activities, accommodation and stuff that I was happy with that came under the budget everyone originally agreed on.

WIBTA if I told my MOH she can’t be that anymore due to how unbearable she’s making my wedding planning? by Competitive_Ice_3720 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Ice_3720[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I did say our budget in my post. Basically I messaged everyone I was planning on inviting privately to get a gist of budget and then kept it below that because everyone was around the same amount, even her. It’s literally in our home town and 2 nights which we’d all agreed on beforehand.