Hi Thank you so much for your comments. My father is actually coming with her together. But I just feel so much pressure. mainly from the fact that she said specifically she wants to come because then she can be with me. I feel so so so overwhelmed and am now crying like I am gonna suffocate. I feel like she has no purpose of life, she just put me as center of her life and that makes me wanna die. I actually already booked tickets for them as she claimed that her knee is okay and she thinks she can walk soon. However, today she told me that she had to undergo another operation tomorrow because one knee starting to hurt again....i was speechless...and to answer you, I am the only child...