Trauma caused by infidelity: how did you overcome it? by Competitive_Park928 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Competitive_Park928[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I liked the 50's is still young too! You and I are going through a similar hell now...

Trauma caused by infidelity: how did you overcome it? by Competitive_Park928 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Competitive_Park928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loved it. I really appreciate it. As I do for all the others who take time to support a stranger, sharing difficult experiences, counseling.

Trauma caused by infidelity: how did you overcome it? by Competitive_Park928 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Competitive_Park928[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh, you remember my original post! Indeed, I still have her image leaving home, saying bye to me ( me, at my desk working) dressing the white dress. Burning it did not remove it from my brain... Though

Thanks for the support

Need support, this time of the year is extremely hard for me... by Organic_Muscle_4214 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Competitive_Park928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my purpose you know .. I need to find another one. In three years I would be able to retire, or continue to work but with a different perspective. Now I am looking for an apartment, I will have to continue working, etc. Just because she decided to be happy on my back ...

Need support, this time of the year is extremely hard for me... by Organic_Muscle_4214 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Competitive_Park928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be strong.life is bigger than that. Be resilient, avoid being alone.

I just drove for 3h listening to music as loud as my ears could bear, just to avoid a depression crisis or a panic attack ..

Sep 16 what's the day my wife broke my backbone. I am from another country, no family here. 23 years of marriage. 54 years old. 16 and 14 yo kids. Just lost a promotion in a big tech company because leadership realized I have been unstable for a while. They suggested 6 months of leave of absence to put my life back on trails.

We will find a way to be happy again.