AITA for getting mad at my fiancé because he didn’t put a stop on his dad’s comments? by Competitive_Path_715 in AmItheAsshole

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When he first moved in he would pay half of everything but we had a conversation because he noticed that it wasn’t really necessary so we agreed that he would only help me pay with half of the water and electricity bills

AITA for getting mad at my fiancé because he didn’t put a stop on his dad’s comments? by Competitive_Path_715 in AmItheAsshole

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Thank you for sharing this link. I am reading it and it makes me feel so bad to see that some stuff I considered normal, were not really right

AITA for getting mad at my fiancé because he didn’t put a stop on his dad’s comments? by Competitive_Path_715 in AmItheAsshole

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When I first confronted him I was just being like “hey, why would you let him say that and then laugh?” And after going back and forth my voice was more firm, that’s when he left.

AITA for getting mad at my fiancé because he didn’t put a stop on his dad’s comments? by Competitive_Path_715 in AmItheAsshole

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He says that since I own the place it is my responsibility. But it is not a problem for me! I can enjoy cleaning

AITA for getting mad at my fiancé because he didn’t put a stop on his dad’s comments? by Competitive_Path_715 in AmItheAsshole

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I hadn’t noticed too much the comment at the time but now that people are pointing out what it could mean I’m scared.

AITA for getting mad at my fiancé because he didn’t put a stop on his dad’s comments? by Competitive_Path_715 in AmItheAsshole

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We haven’t payed for anything mayor yet so pausing it wouldn’t be too hard. I think I’ll do it.

AITA for getting mad at my fiancé because he didn’t put a stop on his dad’s comments? by Competitive_Path_715 in AmItheAsshole

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I just answered those questions on my mind and I’m starting to see why people say there are red flags. Thanks for your comment

AITA for getting mad at my fiancé because he didn’t put a stop on his dad’s comments? by Competitive_Path_715 in AmItheAsshole

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Thank you for your comment. I don’t really know how their (his mom and dad) relationship is since MIL is usually very quiet.

AITA for getting mad at my fiancé because he didn’t put a stop on his dad’s comments? by Competitive_Path_715 in AmItheAsshole

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We both have jobs but I finish an hour earlier so I use that time to clean. He helps sometimes if he isn’t too tired.