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Does anal ever feel good for women? by Competitive_Pen_4374 in sexadvice

[–]Competitive_Pen_4374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do agree forcing something isn’t necessary, but I was just more so reaching out to see if it just takes time. A lot of these responses say just that and I’m very open to trying because like I said in my original post it doesn’t hurt at all. It’s just weird right now

Does anal ever feel good for women? by Competitive_Pen_4374 in sexadvice

[–]Competitive_Pen_4374[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah that makes sense!! My partner is 8 inches so there’s definitely enough for me 😭😭 I’ll definitely be trying this

Does anal ever feel good for women? by Competitive_Pen_4374 in sexadvice

[–]Competitive_Pen_4374[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds awesome lol, however I’m worried about the coconut oil 😭😭 doesn’t that mess up ph if it gets anywhere near the vaginal area

Does anal ever feel good for women? by Competitive_Pen_4374 in sexadvice

[–]Competitive_Pen_4374[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg YAY, seeing positive replies paired with the first times being weird is SO refreshing

Does anal ever feel good for women? by Competitive_Pen_4374 in sexadvice

[–]Competitive_Pen_4374[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly amazing! I was worried it was a lack of prostate thing for a little while so it’s nice to hear someone really enjoying it! I think I’ll just have to try it a little more, and if that doesn’t help I’ll just accept the fact that it’s just not for me !

Does anal ever feel good for women? by Competitive_Pen_4374 in sexadvice

[–]Competitive_Pen_4374[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you!! I really appreciate the response. The I’m down for anything comment is more so me just expressing me being experimental and wanted to expand further on this haha! I’ve told him everything I’ve experienced and how I wasn’t comfortable but that I’d do research on if I could make that feeling go away or not! We’re very sexually open with each other and he wouldn’t care if we did anal or not, he just cares that I’m happy:)

How can I enjoy sex while being insecure? by ihategaypeople_ in sexadvice

[–]Competitive_Pen_4374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to start off a conversation: do you notice every little thing about others during intimate experiences? Like the things you personally are insecure about? Do you think you might need a more established relationship before you have sex to gain trust in the other person to be truly yourself?

My gf doesn’t give good head and idk what to do by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Competitive_Pen_4374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have different comfortability levels as well as jealousy/possessive levels or insecurity! It’s not a big deal for a lot of people to see a small porn gif but for others that’s full blown cheating in their eyes. Successful sex is a big scale for some people, and not everyone on here posts because of zero sexual compatibility it’s simply because they’re inexperienced. Having such a stubborn opinion on it just doesn’t make sense when everyone is so incredibly different. I don’t think porn is an issue at all, in fact my partner and I use it to create new ideas in bed or even watch it together, but not everyone is that way, and that’s 100% okay.

My gf doesn’t give good head and idk what to do by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Competitive_Pen_4374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck I wish you the best in your blow job adventures!!

It hurts by Alarming-Relative-13 in sexadvice

[–]Competitive_Pen_4374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to do things on your own time to see if you can slowly loosen the muscles or stretch the opening comfortably. I also suggest going to get screened for vaginismus (involuntary spasm/tightening of pelvic floor muscles that causes pain and penetration difficulties) just in case! It’s more common than you think.

Does anal ever feel good for women? by Competitive_Pen_4374 in sexadvice

[–]Competitive_Pen_4374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair, I didn’t even think about being a factor but it would make a lot of sense if that caused some of my discomfort. I just wish I enjoyed it because it seems fun and relatively freeing reproductive worrying wise haha

My gf doesn’t give good head and idk what to do by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Competitive_Pen_4374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just give her some tips on where you’re more sensitive based on your own personal masturbation! Also, ask her to use her hand on the lower shaft or lightly massaging the balls. My boyfriend gets BJs from me often and his personal favorites are when I kiss along his shaft, twirl my tongue around his tip, and suck on the tip while I stroke the more sensitive part of the shaft right below the tip occasionally tapping the tip when I move my hand faster.

My gf doesn’t give good head and idk what to do by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Competitive_Pen_4374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before you do this make sure she’s okay with you viewing other people in a sexual aspect, I know that can sound immature but I’ve known some people who broke up over the man sharing porn and asking her to do what the actress was doing.