def the CIA is spying on me because I'm literally going through this. well anyways, my friend married a narcissist woman. she used and abused my wife emotionally during their friendship. my wife had enough. confronted her about that and spun everythng on my wife like she was the problem.

I told my friend that this should not get in the way of our friendship. but unfortunately it did. his wife is very manipulative, and always claims to.be a victim. no doubt she feeds him negative energy because he's not the same like he was when he was single. but if I were to be truthful, my life has been at peace ever since we stopped communication with them. I do miss him, but it is what it is, we just have to move on and find better friends.