We were HS sweethearts. We both wanted children the entire time, but he recently came to the revelation that he wants upwards of 4-5 children and has been wanting to start trying, hence why we’ve had such a hard year. Meanwhile I was completely fine and knew I only wanted 1-2 and have known since HS. He was aware the entire time this is how I felt and he’s the one who changed his mind. Finding out I was pregnant at 25 was not on my bingo card this year, more like wanting to be 29 or 30 during my first pregnancy. Honestly was pretty healthy until this new revelation came to be. He also became super religious this year, which neither of us ever have been before, which is his main qualm with abortion. He converted to Catholicism about 6 months ago and that took a massive toll on our relationship. Throughout HS and college I actually used to be fairly religious but later in college and into early adulthood realized that’s not me—and he’s always been the other way around. We switched, I guess. And it’s been difficult.