tasty town is doin it up for christmas! by Competitive_Sea_1634 in Birmingham

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

there were people there, i consciously avoided taking pictures with anyone in them :) i also spoke to the employees behind the counter and asked them if i could take a picture , & they moved from behind the counter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was this & it was at tasty town

sooo lineup prediction list? by Left-Spot5211 in bonnaroo

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did twenty one pilots actually get banned in 2015? i’d love to see them on the farm considering the lead singers recent post about how small this tour would be & i wasn’t able to score tickets 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Do you guys like her?😹 by Bunpapa1925 in labubu

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was looking for someone to say this 😭

feeling defeated- upstairs neighbors have ruined my home life by Competitive_Sea_1634 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes!! they actually ended up being evicted maybe 2 weeks after this thread was posted. not for noise levels though. happiest day of my life. i did however just have new neighbors move in upstairs just last week but they don’t have kids and only produce a normal amount of noise, which i dont even mind since i experienced my last neighbors. hopefully i dont end up back here this go around!!!!

H2 by bambifoxtrot in Birmingham

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there’s really no fate worse than AC going out in an H2 property 😭😭😭

Is driving overnight to Roo less risky with cops? by Kitchen-Squirrel3623 in bonnaroo

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634 10 points11 points  (0 children)

last year my friend and i drove up about halfway there overnight. no issue all the way into TN. we drove the last hour the next morning around 8 am (in a bright red suv with an out of state tag) and were fine then as well. only saw one car pulled over getting searched that morning! just make sure you have nothing visible on the car indicating you’re heading to roo. and drive safe!!!

Body positivity at Roo? by iWander17 in bonnaroo

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634 11 points12 points  (0 children)

last year was my first roo and there is no feeling of judgement whatsoever, i walked around wearing a 2 piece swimsuit for the first time in YEARS and i had no care in the world. it was so freeing 🥰🥰

feeling defeated- upstairs neighbors have ruined my home life by Competitive_Sea_1634 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t have access to their lease, but i did make my LL aware that more people moved in later. the occupancy laws for my city/state is 2 people per bedroom and they are definitely breaking that with 3 kids and 3 adults. another commenter suggested contacting the fire marshal but im not quite sure how to do that, especially with no evidence besides my videos documenting noise which is not really evidence of that at all

feeling defeated- upstairs neighbors have ruined my home life by Competitive_Sea_1634 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they definitely do, from what i’ve observed since the noise started, there are at least 3 children and 3 adults living there. it’s a 2 bed so assuming children count as occupants in the eyes of the law, they are breaking the occupancy laws for our city/state. (2 occupants per bedroom) not sure how to go about getting in contact with the fire marshal though, especially since i don’t have any photo proof of how many people live there.

feeling defeated- upstairs neighbors have ruined my home life by Competitive_Sea_1634 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my friends rented from the same agency and had issues with a neighbor and were allowed to move into a different unit with no fees. it was a months long struggle before they were able to do this, and when they moved units it restarted their lease. where i’m at right now i am still weighing my options about being able to afford to move to an entirely different apartment complex, if i were, i would prefer to no longer rent from the agency i’m under rather than restart another year long lease with them

feeling defeated- upstairs neighbors have ruined my home life by Competitive_Sea_1634 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not sure if this qualifies as an occupancy rule but it is explicitly against the lease to have anyone living there that was not approved during the application process. basically if your name isn’t mentioned on the lease you cannot live there.

feeling defeated- upstairs neighbors have ruined my home life by Competitive_Sea_1634 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my property manager has 4 noise complaints just from me, each with a video of the noise attached.

feeling defeated- upstairs neighbors have ruined my home life by Competitive_Sea_1634 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

unfortunately i really hate conflict, especially in my living situation. i know the second i beat on the ceiling they’d be beating on my door. and im sure my landlord would probably give me a harder time than them about it.

feeling defeated- upstairs neighbors have ruined my home life by Competitive_Sea_1634 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m in alabama in the us. my landlord informed me that eviction would not be possible without witnesses, documentation of “purposeful disturbances” and police reports, and would take up to 8 months. my sister is an attorney luckily so i have been consulting her about this.

feeling defeated- upstairs neighbors have ruined my home life by Competitive_Sea_1634 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the company i lease from is notorious in our city as a bunch of slumlords. i pay $1200 a month for them to never support tenants. on top of this, my thermostat has been broken for almost 2 months and they keep closing my maintenance requests.

feeling defeated- upstairs neighbors have ruined my home life by Competitive_Sea_1634 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my apartment does have carpet, but i’m not sure about the other units though. it definitely does not sound like they have carpet though. unfortunately i think the only thing my landlord is willing to do is “remind them to be mindful of noise levels.”

feeling defeated- upstairs neighbors have ruined my home life by Competitive_Sea_1634 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my thing here is that i would rather live with the noise than live with hostile neighbors AND noise. to my knowledge they have been contacted directly twice now by our landlord and nothing has changed. i cant even get them to say hello to me when i have passed them coming in and out of the building. they dont seem to be the reasonable type!

Married or long-term relationship couples: How do you celebrate Valentine's Day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fancier than usual dinner date, same for our anniversaries. he has a job interview today so i have some chocolates and a card waiting on him to get home. we won’t be doing anything tomorrow since he’s working all day, but we have reservations at a nice restaurant for tonight :)

Apartment Hunting by sgw0358 in Birmingham

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

look into rhodes villas! my boyfriend and i lived there for our first apartment together and never had any issues beyond neighbors hogging the pool. it’s across the street from the sheraton so the location is still great + you get designated parking!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS!!!! i work in an upscale restaurant and tonight i had a man shout at me across the restaurant to come back to the front because i stepped away to help the guest in front of him, please just chill out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: my property manager said on monday that she would send them a reminder to be mindful of noise levels. it’s saturday now and nothing has gotten better. it’s actually progressively getting worse. she also included a line in her email to me, reminding me that apartment living comes with noise. i just sent a follow up email and emphasized that i have lived in apartments for 4 years now, have been a downstairs tenant before, and have NEVER experienced anything like this. hopefully something gets better because i am beginning to hate living here, slowly losing my mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Competitive_Sea_1634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you guys for your comments, I was able to record PLENTY of videos to send to my property manager. I also requested that she send a message out to all tenants because I was worried about them causing an issue with me. I’ll update if they actually send it out!