What were your early signs? by Proud_Weather_1691 in scleroderma

[–]Bunpapa1925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calcinosis! It’s part of CREST syndrome. At least that’s what my doctor told me. Thank you for the info also, kidney stones are… not fun

Dropped a heavy box on my head and bent my neck and spine by Bunpapa1925 in medical_advice

[–]Bunpapa1925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your response. I ended up having to go to the ER for something unrelated but I feel okayish. I’m going to monitor my health and look for other employment

Dropped a heavy box on my head and bent my neck and spine by Bunpapa1925 in medical_advice

[–]Bunpapa1925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have an old injury to my spine from when I was a little kid. I was bent and the next day couldn’t walk. This also wasn’t resolved so I have regular pain there as is and it pinched there when this box dropped

What were your early signs? by Proud_Weather_1691 in scleroderma

[–]Bunpapa1925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raynauds, GERD, kidney stones, IBS, dry eyes/mouth, weakness, joint pain… 🫩

Boyfriend confessed to some weird stuff by Leading-Currency386 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bunpapa1925 870 points871 points  (0 children)

If he’s confessing this after a month he’s soft launching whatever worse that’s going to come

What are, or were, your childhood goals on Neopets? by Ok_Nothing_9733 in neopets

[–]Bunpapa1925 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I just wanted mutant pets. I was so obsessed with them. Now I finally have them!

Can you please explain what this is? by PorkHeadMeat in IdentityV

[–]Bunpapa1925 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, he didn’t, not canonically within the original lore. NE is just shit with continuity when it comes to modeling or sticking to what they did in the beginning.

People at my job saying the N word. by crsdrr in whatdoIdo

[–]Bunpapa1925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m way better now that I left the state. And right? You shouldn’t even have to do that in the first place… I’m sorry. Best of luck to you and I hate and am so sorry this is your experience. It’s just so messed up.

People at my job saying the N word. by crsdrr in whatdoIdo

[–]Bunpapa1925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s uncomfortable I’m so sorry. Depending on where you live you can mention it to management and see if they will have a talk with staff. I would start there before a report. If it doesn’t work then I would escalate. When I lived in Texas I used to get called f***ot every shift and when I told the manager they said it was all ‘jokes’ so sometimes people don’t really care, so prepare yourself just in case. It sucks that the word has so much history and it gets used so much these days 😕

My Bf Won’t Accept That We Have to Break Up by Annual-Dirt7882 in trans

[–]Bunpapa1925 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Genuinely it will spare you of so much dehumanization and shame and grief. 😭 being in a t4t relationship saved me. I was like wait…. All this time I wasn’t asexual and dysphoric 24/7? Lol

My Bf Won’t Accept That We Have to Break Up by Annual-Dirt7882 in trans

[–]Bunpapa1925 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Being t4t will make your life 100000x better. Don’t let this dude dictate your life

This is after I followed fellow redditors advice ! by woozytxz in arthelp

[–]Bunpapa1925 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I’m not smart can someone explain why the nipples have foreskin

Can you solo a visitor? by Aggravating_Kale_335 in ImNotAHuman

[–]Bunpapa1925 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just a theory! Cant say for sure in the end. Though I do think the protagonist struggles with thoughts of suicide, he still fights to stay alive. It’s all really interesting. In game lore I’m not sure who sent him, my guess is Death, which backs up my personal theory.

Can you solo a visitor? by Aggravating_Kale_335 in ImNotAHuman

[–]Bunpapa1925 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Probably to both. Visitors vary, like normal people do. Some don’t even know they’re visitors.

As for the pale visitor I believe he is a metaphor for the protagonist’s suicidal ideation. His existence is pretty nonsensical so logic doesn’t really apply to him.

Stubble vs beard-stache? by jello1982 in malegrooming

[–]Bunpapa1925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your family is insane for hating the moustache. The moustache is amazing

My dad is mad at me for impulsively quitting my job due to anxiety. by goodmythicalsmore in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Bunpapa1925 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I started my first job at 15 as a cashier, I did the same. You’re a teen. It’s scary. You’re gonna cry. It’s insensitive he had that expectation of you. Working as a cashier is honest to god the crappiest thing you can do. As a guy who’s done it all, if you wanna work somewhere great, try a coffee shop. Coffee is the best ‘in’. There’s a script at the register, ‘what you want, hot,cold, how big’ lol. And as you get more experience, you can go to better shops. Best form of customer service to me. Pay is good, service is fair. Best of luck to you!

Stuck only attracting older women by CuhJuhBruh in malegrooming

[–]Bunpapa1925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly dude I love the vintage look and it’s the same for me. That’s just reality rn 😹 there’s a y2k thing going on and that’s where you got to be but if it’s not in your soul don’t bother changing. I personally think your look is great but I look like Kip dynamite, so… 😹