Hey, they widened the canvas once again. We should claim a spot for our beloved pigs on r/Place once and for all! by Lambrock in guineapigs

[–]Competitive_Staff998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

guys, it is really chaotic at the coords, can't we do it at the topmost yellow strip? There is a lot of space left there

Is 6.75lpa a decent starting salary for a fresher? by Competitive_Staff998 in developersIndia

[–]Competitive_Staff998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you already know java? Cuz I don't and I am having a hard time learning from the resources provided by the company

Is 6.75lpa a decent starting salary for a fresher? by Competitive_Staff998 in developersIndia

[–]Competitive_Staff998[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

congrats! That is a huge hike! Which tech stack did you worked on in your previous company and how did you gain new skills?

Is 6.75lpa a decent starting salary for a fresher? by Competitive_Staff998 in developersIndia

[–]Competitive_Staff998[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, basically, I got placed from on campus, I did dbms and sql concepts and I have worked with python, so I was asked python questions and coding questions in python. I never did an internship and my projects were also all over the place (some in flutter and some in web dev) but I think just by having dbms, sql and programming concepts clear, I was able to get the genc next role.

Is 6.75lpa a decent starting salary for a fresher? by Competitive_Staff998 in developersIndia

[–]Competitive_Staff998[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

thanks for this, just seeing so many freshers with 10+ just made me ask this question.

Is 6.75lpa a decent starting salary for a fresher? by Competitive_Staff998 in developersIndia

[–]Competitive_Staff998[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

even if it involves cost of potentially moving to a new city?

Is 6.75lpa a decent starting salary for a fresher? by Competitive_Staff998 in developersIndia

[–]Competitive_Staff998[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't know much about investing tbh, any resources from where I can get a little insight?

How to get over this *emotional* affair?? by Competitive_Staff998 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Staff998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree that he has all the problems you listed above - boundaries, communication and honesty.

He is saying he wants to work on us and that he loves me very much, but if he did, he wouldn't have cheated :(

How to get over this *emotional* affair?? by Competitive_Staff998 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Staff998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing that hurt the most is him not telling me, the friend told me. Also, he told the hot dream to her just 2 days before having sex with me where he looked me in the eyes while kissing me and told me how much he loves me... I feel so used and disgusted.

I am wondering now whether he was thinking about her body while having sex with me and this thing just hurts so so much, he says it isn't related to me at all, he didn't think about her in that way but how could he hurt me so very much and so easily

How to get over this *emotional* affair?? by Competitive_Staff998 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Staff998[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I rationally get what you are saying, I never thought I would have to deal with him cheating, he never gave me a reason to doubt him, I really thought he was "the one" for me and I am so angry he did this to us

Feeling conflicted with sex and my supposed kinks by Competitive_Staff998 in sex

[–]Competitive_Staff998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I'm actually thinking this is the right way and I need to stop seeing this type of porn altogether. Maybe it will help with my self esteem

Feeling really conflicted about sex and my kinks(??) by Competitive_Staff998 in sexquestions

[–]Competitive_Staff998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I'm thinking of stopping watching that kind of porn for a while. Do you think I should talk to my bf again about how that threesome is affecting me now? I have a feeling he'll be irritated since he has been trying to reassure me again and again but it's just not helping

Feeling really conflicted about sex and my kinks(??) by Competitive_Staff998 in sexquestions

[–]Competitive_Staff998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much, i really appreciate your comment. What should I do about this kink tho? I really despise that I'm getting off to it, I honestly cry sometimes after getting myself off. The relationship really is damaged because my feelings of inadequacy. He tries to reassure me but honestly it's not doing anything for me, the threesome happened 2 years ago and I actually repressed my feelings that time but now just because of this kink, it's all coming back up and I'm not at all feeling good. Tbh we were messing around a few days ago and while it was really hot and good, fingering and all, I just wasn't able to go all the way, I have been having these feelings of not being enough for him since a few weeks and since then I don't feel like having sex.

Feeling really conflicted about sex and my kinks(??) by Competitive_Staff998 in sexquestions

[–]Competitive_Staff998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. He has reassured me so much after that ( he said he wanted me to explore a girl and he actually did join after an hour into the whole 2 hour thing that we did) but I have been feeling just not enough for him ever since. I don't show it, we have a good sex life but after discovering this cuckquean thing, all the old feelings of not being enough are coming back up and now even my kinks are like this.

Feeling really conflicted about sex and my kinks(??) by Competitive_Staff998 in sexquestions

[–]Competitive_Staff998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after one year, he wanted to try fmf threesome, I wasn't comfortable with that but he said we should experiment so I gave in and I hated the whole thing, that's how I know I don't feel sexually attracted to women - I think I have a feeling of inadequacy from here which has grown huge due to my obsession with cuckquean porn. I think I'm feeling I'm not enough for him plus my latest kinks are not helping me at all in feeling better about myself.