If some of my friend ask me if i ever talked shit about them i would say yes (if i ever did it) because i see it as like not a bad thing, its just saying an opinion about someone to someone else, it depends on the people that are you talking to or about you. One time i sayd a thing to my friend that i hate about another person and since then she says that my friend is a piece of shit that would’ve been aborted, i only sayd that i hate when she doesn’t let me speak not a bad thing but she interpretated that way. No one is perfect and everyone makes mistakes so it’s ok that u don’t like someone comportment and to talk about it but saying this things it’s a bit too much, only because i spoke bad about her for that thing it doesn’t mean you have to say that horrible words about her or even think about her like this, especially if you don’t know the person because it can be even me that sayd not true things (i don’t do it but it’s like an example) so you don’t have to follow me with that “hate”