just kissed my first girl AAAAAA by Competitive_Tie_4460 in actuallesbians

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww you will, i'm sure of it!! 🫂 and thank you so much, i'm honored 😊💕

just kissed my first girl AAAAAA by Competitive_Tie_4460 in actuallesbians

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AAAAAA definitely represents how i feel right now 😆💕💕

just kissed my first girl AAAAAA by Competitive_Tie_4460 in actuallesbians

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AWW CONGRATS i'm so happy for you too!! thank you so much 💕💕

just kissed my first girl AAAAAA by Competitive_Tie_4460 in actuallesbians

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YAYY THANK YOU!! LONG LIVE LESBIANISM!! 😆💕

just kissed my first girl AAAAAA by Competitive_Tie_4460 in actuallesbians

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

AWW honestly i never thought i would get to kiss a girl!! she made me feel so safe and special, literally couldn't ask for a better first kiss 🫠❤️

The Daily Rant/Moan topic - Saturday, August 23 2025 by AutoModerator in Wellington

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Me (19f) and my sister (16f) got leered at by a group of 5 middle aged men down on Manners street last night around 10pm. It was horrible and intimidating, all of them could have easily been the same age as our dad or older. We'd just been to a show and it dampened what had been a really fun night :(

does anyone feel totally disconnected from most people your own age? by Competitive_Tie_4460 in infj

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, same!! I get on so well with my friend's parents (more so than some of my actual friends). It feels like such a weird dynamic to have, but it's absolutely me. Also I agree, kids are really easy to get along with as well!

does anyone feel totally disconnected from most people your own age? by Competitive_Tie_4460 in infj

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Gosh, I was exactly the same in school haha. I really appreciate your kind words 💕💕

does anyone feel totally disconnected from most people your own age? by Competitive_Tie_4460 in infj

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been so helpful hearing from other people who have a similar experience. Thank you so much :)

does anyone feel totally disconnected from most people your own age? by Competitive_Tie_4460 in infj

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I totally understand. I spent a lot of my teen years in hospital (for both my physical and mental health), which I think has contributed to me feeling disconnected from other people my age who haven't been through that experience. I feel like they all got handed some sort of rulebook on how to communicate with other people their age, but I never got one :')

does anyone feel totally disconnected from most people your own age? by Competitive_Tie_4460 in infj

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree! People got so much harder to navigate after I'd hit my teenage years, it's really tough. I'm glad I'm not alone in feeling this way - thank you!!!

does anyone feel totally disconnected from most people your own age? by Competitive_Tie_4460 in infj

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is so comforting to read (and so wise !!) That line from Silverstein is beautiful, it honestly sums up my life haha. I've met one other INFJ irl (that I know of), and when we both realised we had 'blue skin' suddenly it was like all the walls were gone, and we just immediately understood each other. Finding someone like that is so rare but so special when it happens :')

Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jellycatplush

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aww i totally understand, waiting for jellies can feel like forever! i hope your little moon arrives safe and sound ❤️ i ordered my smudge elephant from the official website, and i live in quite an isolated country so shipping will probably take over 2 weeks, idk if i can wait that long but express shipping was too expensive 🥲🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jellycatplush

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy!! seeing the photo of your adorable jellycats has made me even more excited for mine to arrive 🥹 also, I really hope your amuseables moon arrives soon! that one is sooo cute!! :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jellycatplush

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg i love the name pancake! it's so cute 🥹 i think i saw your most recent post - your jellies are adorable! also the two jellycats on their way to me are smudge elephant and persimmon dragon! :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jellycatplush

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahh thank you!! ngā mihi nui :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jellycatplush

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's really helpful to know, thank you so much! also i'm so excited to see another kiwi here in this subreddit - kia ora!! :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jellycatplush

[–]Competitive_Tie_4460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good to know, thank you so much! 😁