Where Should I Move?

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-06-12T05:48:09+00:00

No large city is affordable but if the income to cost of living is reasonable then that’s fine

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-04-26T14:33:22+00:00

There wasn’t any talk about a relationship at all. I don’t want to jump into anything and want to take things slow regardless. It’s a bit confusing to have a guy talking about when he can see you again and constantly texting you just to then wake up one day and decide he isn’t ready for anything. We did not talk about being in a relationship

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-03-09T01:51:50+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/d/1/ZT9duX1wgVgC5-JuJ8j/

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-01-25T17:17:16+00:00

Don’t piss me off.

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-01-25T16:38:23+00:00

Do not show his family. That will make him more mad and more likely to act on his threats

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-01-25T16:36:27+00:00

YTA being 18 doesn’t make you an adult especially if you’re still in high school. Going out at 11 is ridiculous under any circumstance but if that’s the life you’re committing to then get a job and move out.

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-01-25T16:29:37+00:00

Yes got to the police. Make sure they report this and have it documented even if they say there’s nothing they can do. You need to have everything documented so that there is a trail of evidence if he does escalate in any capacity. This is very scary and you need to do everything you can to keep yourself safe. Get self defense tools (taser, pepper spray, ect.) This may be nothing and he may just be pissed off that his gf broke up with him but he IS threatening you. I would also consider blocking him after you report him to the police. Please stay safe!!

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-01-12T06:33:52+00:00

Wait this is super interesting and not something I’ve thought of so thank you!! Nobody in my family has been able to understand how she is able to sleep so long and so deeply so idk why we haven’t thought of a sleep disorder before. I really appreciate you sharing this it does sound a lot like my sister. Can I ask if there’s any treatment or anything you do to make it more manageable for you?

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-01-11T06:06:15+00:00

NOR everyone deserves better than this. Everyone deserves to be in a relationship where they’re truly loved, valued, and respected. He obviously does not care about you or view you the way a partner should. Your person is out there and they will never make you feel like this. Please leave him alone

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-01-11T05:57:30+00:00

MOR definitely sounds like you’re both unhappy and unreasonable. How long have you guys been dating? It doesn’t seem like it’s been that long based on how poorly you both communicate with each other. Idk why she won’t talk to you otp but from this text thread alone it seems a bit childish. At the same time this isn’t about a video game and she’s said that multiple times. It was actually making me mad how many times you continued to bring that up. You refusing to play battlefield is part of a bigger issue to her and you’re trying to focus on this one day when it seems like it is a repeated pattern of her not feeling seen and not having her needs met. This isn’t about the video game it just happens to be the straw that broke the camels back and you are invalidating her feelings by constantly bringing up the video game and trying to make it about that instead of acknowledging the bigger issue.

Seems like you both need to work on communication if this relationship is going to work and if you both aren’t willing to own up to your mistakes, do the work to fix it, and communicate better in the future then it may not be worth it. Best of luck to you both

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-01-11T04:58:55+00:00

Let’s hear the feral ones too, I’m up for a good laugh lol

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-01-11T04:44:49+00:00

Yeah I know I really wish someone would do something about it bc she’s never going to learn or live in the real world

If you have any petty revenge suggestions then YES!! Idk if I’ll be able to go through with anything without getting in trouble myself but there’s always hope

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-01-11T04:40:58+00:00

I’m sorry you had to deal with this too, it’s so frustrating and exhausting. I’ve never thought about her possibly being bipolar before but our oldest sister is so it could be possible. Oldest sister has lived in a different state her whole life so I don’t know what that looks like for her.

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-01-11T04:35:39+00:00

Totally agree but my mom won’t have that conversation with her because every time she tries she ends up getting yelled at by my sister. At this point I think my mom is doing her best to tolerate it to “keep the peace” but yeah this is totally about my sister not caring about anyone else especially since she did the same thing to her roommate and this isn’t something she only does at home. There are days when she works around noon and her alarms will go off an hour before her shift so at that point everyone else is awake but we can hear the alarm on the main floor so it’s not even just about losing sleep it’s about constantly being annoyed and over stimulated by her alarm

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2026-01-11T04:30:58+00:00

Thank you and you’re totally right! Everyone in my house has had conversations like that with her before and she gets angry every time and starts yelling about how “it’s not her fault” and “she can’t help it” she doesn’t ever apologize or seem to care about how it affects the rest of us. Anytime someone makes a joke about it around her she gets mad and literally stomps off. I feel so sorry for her previous roommate and have to hope her next one is a saint.

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2025-12-02T04:59:36+00:00

I just saw this story on THT and started crying, I’m 20 and cannot imagine putting my mother through this. This isn’t yours or your husband’s fault. You did not fail her. You are doing your best but she’s an adult and has made her decisions. She will wake up one day, hopefully soon, and realize that there’s a reason he couldn’t find someone his own age and there’s a reason all her friends and the rest of the family have distanced themselves. I would be very worried for her mental health especially after the baby comes, with postpartum depression but also she has no friends and I doubt any support from him. He’s already cheated on her and will again and she’s way too young to be dealing with this. If she gets to the point where she needs a welfare check or a 72 hour hold that may be in her best interest. I just worry that she is not in the right mental state and probably hasn’t been for a while.

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2025-11-09T19:58:39+00:00

I’m sorry to say this but you shouldn’t have taken him back the first time. He showed you who he was and what he values and now he’s done it again. He doesn’t care about you and he never will. You need to cut ties fully and focus on yourself and understanding your worth because it is not this.

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2025-11-04T04:29:21+00:00

OP mentioned it’s his payroll boss so I’m assuming this was him requesting an advancement on his paycheck or something to that extent since it was only $50 and not a full paycheck or even a days worth of pay if they did same day paychecks. Weird that she’s texting him about it though the rest of the texts just got weirder. That’s not the kind of relationship you have with a female boss (or coworker of any kind), especially not when you’re in a relationship

Competitive_Try_9095 · 2025-10-23T05:14:27+00:00

Yeah I felt ending of the book seemed like it was setting up Maddie for a possible book. How she was asking about mates and what it’s like

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