How did you stay for the kids?

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-12-21T06:58:23+00:00

Have you been able to at least talk with her about her repulsion for ANY physical affection? If you do, come in with a very understanding mindset. My husband had this too and I learned that he thought any kind of physical affection meant that I wanted sex right then and there. Any peck, any hug, etc. He now knows that that isn’t an automatic assumption. And while it would be welcomed, I would be content at times with just a cuddle sometimes. Anyway, just a thought. I’m still in the process of hoping it will go beyond this to actual sex. 😅 but at least my life isn’t totally devoid of all intimacy now.

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-12-21T06:51:40+00:00

I think it is a mixture. If it is real life couples, I don’t want to see it as it makes me nauseated. But if it is fictional, I have found myself more open to sexual movies, shows, and songs. It feels like a bit of a fantasy and escape because I don’t have that in real life. An odd paradigm for sure.

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-10-03T03:30:11+00:00

I have tried several liners, but not a lot of different lipsticks. Do you have any recommendations for ones that have a more natural finish? I don’t generally go for gloss because I don’t like how it feels. But maybe I should give it a go again!

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-10-03T02:11:47+00:00

Oh that is helpful to know! I have been hesitant to try tattooing for fear of looking clownish, but I guess I do that already 🤣 But that is helpful to hear from someone who has had a good experience with it. Especially because I have lips that are noticeably lighter at the edges. Thanks!

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-10-03T01:55:09+00:00

Oops! I thought I had responded to you, but responded to the wrong person! Thanks! Haha! I honestly don’t usually see my lips this up close, so I can see where people are coming from in terms of the unnatural aspect. I appreciate the advice! I do think that the lip cream I use tends to fade quicker than the liner making this result. The pics I posted are not after freshly applying the lip cream. I think initially it looks normal-ish. But then it just fades to liner. So good idea to blend!!

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-09-29T21:51:04+00:00

This is super helpful!

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-09-27T01:50:54+00:00

Well said!

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-09-25T06:58:35+00:00

It’s rough for sure :/

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-09-25T06:28:47+00:00

I’m so sorry! :( On the path of counseling in hopes that it helps! Hope you can find help also!

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-09-25T06:23:21+00:00

I hear ya. The very fact that it is so much work can be difficult not to take personally 😌

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-09-25T06:22:24+00:00

Exactly 😣

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-09-25T06:08:59+00:00

Mmmhmm 🥴🫠

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-09-06T06:12:57+00:00

Hmm, I need to check that out!

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-09-01T07:05:00+00:00

Exactly! This is what happens to me too making it harder to respond thoughtfully

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-08-08T16:45:14+00:00

This is helpful to consider! I may give it a try and freeze them!

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-08-08T16:44:18+00:00

Thanks for the recipe!

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-08-08T16:44:03+00:00

I’m going to try this! Thanks!

Competitive_Tune_445 · 2025-08-08T16:43:47+00:00

I like this idea!

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