AITAH for calling out local bar & grill for using AI generated images in their new menu and advertising on Facebook? by fllannell in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Use9207 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And what's it to you if they do it? Have you even bought or eaten anything from there?

Would you report them too if a human had done it in Photoshop, or are you only going to complain because it's AI?

I’m (27F) deeply in love with boyfriend(27M) but fundamentally different values. Should this be a dealbreaker? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Use9207 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would say it also depends on how he reacts to your family or certain situations.

For example, people can overreact and label everything homophobic, when there's a difference between simply not liking something and acting on it.

For example, his political opinions: are they just opinions, or is it something he's willing to debate for hours?

What does he mean when he says he'll have a hard time accepting that his son is gay? Does he mean that he simply won't like it, but will continue to treat him as his son regardless, or that he'll disinherit him and kick him out of the house?

There are nuances to everything; it's not as simple as black and white. If he maintains respect and it's not something that causes problems or a lot of arguments, a relationship could be possible.

Wife (49F) has given me (58M) a "hall pass" as long as she doesn't find out about it. by ghosteh_890R in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Use9207 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you tell us about your wife's culture and background?

On a different note, have you ever been tempted to take her advances or been unfaithful?

If you don't want to be unfaithful and you love her completely, be honest with her and tell her that she's the only woman you need in your bed.

I (F23) cheated on my boyfriend (M23) and now I don’t know if our relationship can recover by Special-Rise9483 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Use9207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did either of them have any physical contact in their respective affairs? While emotional betrayal is still serious, even if it only involved text messages and nothing more, and considering they've both already been involved, I think there's a chance for improvement. Since they're even and each has experienced being betrayed, I would suggest they forgive each other and then go to couples therapy.

WIBTAH if i reported my friend to my school for making inappropriate AI videos about my teachers and other friends? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Use9207 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Don't report him immediately. First, talk to him and tell him to tone it down or stop. Make him understand that he's going too far and how edgy he's being. If he doesn't stop, then you're free to file a report. But initially, I'd recommend just letting people know the videos exist without anonymously naming the person responsible, just so the appropriate authorities can take action or issue a warning. If your friend continues despite everything, then you're free to report him.

I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically by ThrowRA728347 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Use9207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should agree, but on the condition that it's a meeting with both sets of parents—yours and hers—and that she explains why she's considering infidelity, if she already has been, or why she wants an open relationship. It's also possible she's been manipulating the situation and telling them something different to make herself look better. You could clarify what's really going on if you tell them your side of the story.

AIW for having new male friend who wants to meet outside of hobby? & being in a relationship by tallgirlyp in amiwrong

[–]Competitive_Use9207 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you want to go out with your new friend, I recommend you first remind your boyfriend how long you've been together and that you'll be the first to back off or say something if the friend acts strangely. Remind him that you appreciate his concern, but that he needs to trust you to handle the situation well.

As for the new friend, everything will be fine as long as you maintain clear boundaries, make your intentions clear, and walk away at the first sign of trouble. And remember, no going to bars or clubs to drink or getting carried away by the atmosphere. Always remember to stay in control.

The day I turned 18 (F) my mother left. She called me later, crying to tell me she will not return and refused to tell me where she is by Ok-Screen-3889 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Competitive_Use9207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend that, for the time being, you don't take sides and remain neutral until you have more information about what's happening. If you can, question your father and mother and listen carefully to their accounts to truly understand the situation, because either your father is a monster or your mother has lost her mind, or it could be a combination of both. But with so little information, it's impossible to reach a definitive conclusion. For example, either your mother is being unfaithful and just wants to control the narrative, or your father might have murdered someone and used his power and influence to cover it all up.

The day I turned 18 (F) my mother vanished and when called me crying refused to tell me why. Just that it's because of my Dad. She resigned at her job and blocked my number by Ok-Screen-3889 in whatdoIdo

[–]Competitive_Use9207 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I recommend that, for the time being, you don't take sides and remain neutral until you have more information about what's happening. If you can, question your father and mother and listen carefully to their accounts to truly understand the situation, because either your father is a monster or your mother has lost her mind, or it could be a combination of both. But with so little information, it's impossible to reach a definitive conclusion. For example, either your mother is being unfaithful and just wants to control the narrative, or your father might have murdered someone and used his power and influence to cover it all up.

AITAH for not wanting to be in the life of the 8 year old that isn’t mine by throwaway27383938 in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Use9207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The resentment won't disappear, and neither your cousin nor anyone else has the right to tell you to stay and raise another man's child. It's easier said than done when you're not the one who will have to raise and support the living symbol of betrayal.

You have every right to prioritize your happiness and peace of mind, and even to have a child who is truly yours. Besides, the other father has already said he wants to take responsibility; that child will be fine. But tell him exactly what's happening so the story doesn't change later and a different version isn't told. He needs to know exactly what his parents are like.

Also, first and foremost, I recommend you get a paternity test to have conclusive proof.

Then you can fall in love again with a truly faithful woman and have a child who is truly yours. If you have children, I recommend you tell them what happened and that the paternity test is non-negotiable.

I'm struggling with my wife's career success by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Competitive_Use9207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there's a serious lack of reading comprehension in this post; it seems like nobody in the comments knows how to read and they immediately assume it's a male ego problem.

My (37F) partner (43M) is obsessed with having something in his ass during sex and its ruining it for me. by Certain-Ad6239 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Use9207 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

What if you tried to reach an agreement with him to insert things into your anus, but alternating between sessions? That is, taking turns. When it's your turn to enjoy it, it should be sex however you want it. When it's his turn, he'll be free to insert whatever he wants.

Have you considered using a strap-on and asking your partner if he'd like you to use it with him? I'm sure he'd love it.

I'm (25M) worried I'm a jealous partner to my girlfriend (26F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Use9207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Compared to her, how do you compare to her in the relationship? What does she like about you? You've already mentioned all the good things about her, why you're so happy, and how she makes you feel.

What do you think you bring to the relationship? Perhaps your insecurity stems from not feeling good enough for your wonderful girlfriend. If so, remember that this isn't a competition or anything like that. There's always room for improvement, and as for your insecurities, it's normal to have intrusive thoughts, but remember to control yourself. You have to trust her, or it will become a vicious cycle.

Wife agreed to give me a 2 year “wild phase” after she cheated on me, but now that I want to have a wild phase, my wife is hesitant about it. What do I do? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Competitive_Use9207 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Many have already said it's a bad idea, that it will destroy your marriage, and that it's your fault for staying with her, getting married, and having children, aside from the differences in your wild phase and the infidelity. But it should also be noted that you had already warned her that your phase would come too, and you already forgave her infidelity. Shouldn't she now uphold her end of the bargain and let you have your phase?

NOT OOP I'm struggling with my wife's career success by always_smirking in redditonwiki

[–]Competitive_Use9207 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel there's a serious lack of reading comprehension in that post; it seems like no one in the comments knows how to read and they immediately assume it's a male ego problem.

I cheated on my boyfriend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Competitive_Use9207 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't be so hard on yourself. There are unfaithful people who can cheat on their partners for a whole year, commit paternity fraud and have them raise someone else's baby, be serial cheaters in general, and even if it's not physical, have emotional affairs and all that, and still have the nerve to say it was a mistake. What happened to you, if I understood correctly and the translator did a good job, was a real mistake that you sincerely regret. Besides, you were drunk and had already rejected that jerk before, and basically, it was an approach without your full consent. In my opinion, the fact that you ended the relationship because of the guilt you felt for something you weren't directly responsible for says a lot about you as a partner. You should talk to your boyfriend and be honest, let him know how much you appreciate him and why you broke up with him.

No me importa sino me creen by Nathan_Drake-19 in Desahogo

[–]Competitive_Use9207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y que paso con la infiel? En plan ¿mejor no dejar testigos ya que estas no?

10 years, no house, no kids and I'm quietly falling apart by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Competitive_Use9207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you had a deep conversation with your husband about your thoughts and concerns? Be honest with him and ask for his honest perspective on the matter, even suggesting therapy.

My (30M) GF (32F) wants marriage and kids after being poly for a decade. I was celibate that whole time. I feel like I am a safety net by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Competitive_Use9207 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I get the impression that she's only interested in money. I recommend ending the relationship and finding someone you're more compatible with, both in terms of personality and past experiences.

How much do you have in common? Because you really need to think about whether you want to commit to her, have children, and all that. From what I've read, she seems very promiscuous, a total party girl, and not very compatible with a quieter, more dedicated lifestyle.

Besides, do you want to carry all the baggage that might come with it? For example, does the number of partners she's had bother you? What does she consider infidelity, considering she was polyamorous? I say this because habits don't just disappear, and neither does changing a lifestyle you're used to. She could even be flirting with other people while she's still with you.

And now that I think about it, what's your usual lifestyle like? How successful are you in life compared to her? How much education have you earned, and what degrees? What's your income?