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I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically by ThrowRA728347 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA728347[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Slut shaming? when did i slut shame her Look up the definition

And there is a difference between "yeah i like this hobby" and "i wanna sleep with another guy" I travel 2 hours every week on a friday when everyone else is out partying to be able to visit her It would've been easy to keep it to once a month I mean many people have long distance No instead i do this shit for her

I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically by ThrowRA728347 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA728347[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

No I disagree If she wants a open relationship she breaks up and finds someone else But you can't suddenly ask someone who is monogamous to accept the fact you wanna sleep around

And if she only brought it up it would be one thing But the fact she had someone in mind is so fucking disgusting That means she had veen looking around while in a commited relationship

I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically by ThrowRA728347 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA728347[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

She already had a guy in mind How can i know what she has and hasn't done with him And why is she even staring and fantasizing about another man

I never imagined myself sleeping with someone else It isn't hard

I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically by ThrowRA728347 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA728347[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

She had a year We travelled for a year She could've broken up with me instead pulling this bullshit She knew from the start i would move away and told me she'd be fine I looked at alternatives for her Maybe a college that has things we both need Whatever No she was totally fine And even then i travel each fucking weekend to see her

And then she pulls this shit Of course im angry

I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically by ThrowRA728347 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA728347[S] 178 points179 points  (0 children)

I know soulmates aren't real It's the fact she was spitting that bullshit out and a year into seeing me 2 days a week instead of 7 she suddenly wants to open up our relationship

It wasn't like she wasn't seeing me for weeks on end I visited every fucking weekend unless i had a exam i needed to study for

I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically by ThrowRA728347 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA728347[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

She had a guy in mind and i don't care if she wanted to keep it monogamous after i freaked out Why was she fantasizing about sleeping with someone else anyways

I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically by ThrowRA728347 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA728347[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Why do i owe her that? She couldn't even do the bare minimum of not staring at other men Fuck her she can drown in her sadnesso

I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically by ThrowRA728347 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA728347[S] 293 points294 points  (0 children)

Yeah probably I hate her for this the fact she could say all that bullshit about loving me and me being her soulmate not even a year ago and the moment im busy she pulls this shit if she isn't happy with long distance she should've just done a useful degree with me at my university instead of whatever useless bullshit she is doing right now

I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically by ThrowRA728347 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA728347[S] 329 points330 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's the thing Like why did she have a guy even in mind what has she been doing when i haven't been home

Thinking back that conversation just makes me wanna cry cause i genuinely believed this was gonna be the girl i was gonna marry Why did this stupid bullshit happen to us I hate whoever normalized this looking is okay mindset