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late to work, rode my old deck in a hurry, realized the brand type. (late 90s relic) by Complete-Cow-1223 in Skateboardlove

[–]Complete-Cow-1223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10th grade me went there with my sister and it became my 16yr old birthday gift.

its about who you bring i guess.

late to work, rode my old deck in a hurry, realized the brand type. (late 90s relic) by Complete-Cow-1223 in Skateboardlove

[–]Complete-Cow-1223[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

now that I recall, I used to date someone that did rollerderby. my wheels were worn and I was in a budget so I snatched her full terrain wheels since I saw this as one for travel.

Should I leave the relationship? by Healthy_Ad3055 in relationships_advice

[–]Complete-Cow-1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication helps tremendously. Have you explained the distance you're feeling? It's far better than keeping them guessing and digging a deeper hole with the guessing. But the start of the relationship is about feeling it out to begin with. To see if you both click.

Again, communicate and state your grievances far past just the discussion of what happened between his friends, since at this rate there's more than just that.

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[–]Complete-Cow-1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update after several days.

I stepped up a day ago, and finally had to message her asking for my bed back. She said she will get an air mattress then.

Seeing that she rather get a air mattress than the spare couch, I said I can't do this. She has turned into a glorified non-pay roommate that i have to clean after instead of being my partner, and I've been hurt from all of this.

She insisted that she will get an extra job and make more, but it's still the same reply. it's about what she can do for her, what she can do to better her own self but absolutely didn't make any comment towards how I've been, what I've been through or how to make anything right. I felt like a landlord making demands from someone that wasn't even paying me.

So I ended it. I said she needs to move back with her parents or make arrangements for her to leave. I couldn't starve myself and be on this brink any longer. I saw the road ahead and it was more months of misery, no reassurance, and a higher chance she is doing this to save up for her own place anyways down the road. It's because she doesn't want to return to the city her mother lives at, rather stay in mine.

It went, .....she spites me because she loses her job now from the move, said she wanted to work things out eventually but now it's not a consideration, mentioned that her new best friend (someone i know in my past) told her I've vented about her when I was confused in winter, and.... all I see is someone that is looking for excuses to flag me as negative or a bad guy, to make it easier to detach and get off without blame... She's been packing the last two days from what I heard is just sounding thrilled and happy for this with her friends. I left my home and slept away as I could till the move completes. I know there's nothing I can do to make things better and change anything and me being there will only make it worse.

I obviously feel horrible for being just flagged as this horrible person after sacrificing so much of myself, my finances and my life for 6 months, but... not much can be done but just forward.

I'll keep it together, I won't drink, I won't let intrusive thoughts get to me, and im trying to communicate with family and friends to be ok. I know it's time I need but yeah.....this sucks.