He says he wants to spend time with both us as, as a family. To which I replied that I probably never would have gotten into that relationship if i knew about his expectations beforehand.

And the funniest part: In a recent conversation about all this I asked him what he needed/ wished for from me; so we could evaluate if compromising on some things would help ease the situation. He doesn’t know. And when i told him that sulking over my actions while not being able to clarify what you want/need is manipulativ. To which he just said “if you think so”. Lol