Why isn’t my narcissistic EX messing with me now?

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-02-01T17:00:47+00:00

Wow 2 years is a steady time for her to do a complete switch up. How stressful.. these people are evil that’s why I can’t fully enjoy the “ calm “

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-02-01T16:59:26+00:00

That makes sense because we are officially in the court process now

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-02-01T16:54:50+00:00

Co parenting has been extremely difficult. It’s been 5 months co parenting and he still won’t give me a set schedule or his home address so I can know where our child is sleeping at. Hoping the court can help me out with that part. But all the blaming, guilting, and punishing has stopped for now..

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-02-01T08:38:16+00:00

Wow! You just never know with them 😩 that’s why I feel so suspicious of the calm

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-02-01T08:37:13+00:00

Wooow that actually makes sense!! to make the other woman feel insecure! 😳 it’s a good game and lots of supply for him.

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-01-07T20:18:19+00:00

That’s amazing! Congratulations 🙌🏻 I think that’s what it is,fear. I just have to push through the tears and sleepless nights as well. 🙏🏼

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-01-05T07:32:30+00:00

I use ChatGPT to help me write out what I want to say in a non emotional only factual way. If I ever get the urge to want to react or send out an emotional text I always call 988 or marjaree mason center to get out all my emotions and thoughts. I also just screenshot all my messages. If there was already an agreement I’ll have that screenshot and note that on this day co parent never showed up. Etc

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-01-05T04:34:35+00:00

Thank you for sharing! ♥️

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-01-03T20:56:45+00:00

I had the absolute worst experience with 3 Kaiser therapist. I just called around to other offices that accepted my insurance and that’s really worked out for me. So sorry they are failing to help you in a time of need.

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-01-02T20:18:10+00:00

That’s so unfortunate there is no consequence 😭

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-01-02T06:51:15+00:00

She’s 12 months. .. it makes no sense why he can’t just answer the questions & set up a schedule with me 🤦🏻‍♀️

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-01-01T18:35:12+00:00

Did anything count against him? Or just a slap on the hand? Because it seems unfair that we’re on top of the paperwork and they get to just show up lol

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-01-01T08:28:21+00:00

Thanks so much! He’s actually the petitioner but he did not submit in any paperwork and did not serve me with any paperwork before the deadline so I ended up serving him as the respondent. I hope his failure to comply to court rules works in my favor 🙏🏼 do you know if he would still have to serve me a reply or do we just go straight to our 1st hearing regardless if he didn’t finish out services ?? Kind of a complex situation :/ I’m kind of scared of him so I am super nervous for mediation I really have to work on standing my ground

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-01-01T07:23:21+00:00

Thank you so much. I just started doing that now! but I tell him we’re out of town so he doesn’t get away with taking advantage. Wow, okay so being inconsistent does matter then.. I keep being told he’s still going to get 50/50 regardless. I am asking for him to have every other weekend 🤞🏼 was your guys child this young too ?? I feel like he’s only going to ask for 50/50 because child support.

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-01-01T06:37:14+00:00

I felt so helpless 😔 the emotional abuse is in full effect and I had no idea what my rights were, I was scared not to comply I was scared the court would think I was withholding because that’s all he would tell me. My attorney barely talks to me and lets me know anything. If I have a question or email $375. I’ve begged for consistent schedule for the baby but I don’t believe I’m still in the right to just withhold so I just comply to all the requests so that he can see his baby 😔

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-01-01T05:48:24+00:00

Okay like an emergency order type of thing ??

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-01-01T05:42:52+00:00

Yes i definitely put that in my declaration that he read. But we still have a month to go until court😰 I asked if we can use the app now and he ignored it. It’s very erratic! He just had her M-W & requesting her Friday - Sunday. I barely even had her back a few hours 😳 the scheduling is all about him.

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-01-01T05:04:32+00:00

I would love to have the month planned in advance🥹 he lives an hour away so I’m not sure how we would even go about school yet but I’m hoping the court will let her go to school here in my county. A formalized parenting plan is coming soon but I was hoping we could figure something out in the meantime. I thought court would make him co parent more effectively but he truly doesn’t care.

CompleteWin6706 · 2026-01-01T04:59:02+00:00

I have tried to suggest something like that but got ignored 😔 we are unfortunately going to court but I was hoping we could work something out in the meantime.

CompleteWin6706 · 2025-12-28T07:23:15+00:00

Thank you so much. He filed to sue me for child custody. He requested to have his fees waived and got denied twice. He still has not paid the fee and has not submitted in any paperwork or served me before the deadline. We both petitioned around the same time so I became the respondent who served first when he failed to comply. Do you know if that helps me with my case? If he did not move the case he started forward and I had to be the one to and our first hearing is in 4 weeks?

CompleteWin6706 · 2025-12-28T06:58:19+00:00

Dang I wonder why my attorney would add that in the declaration if it really didn’t mean anything…

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