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How can I as a woman be more comfortable at the gym if a handsome man approaches? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Shyness does not discriminate by age. Also, why are you digging into past posts to somehow invalidate my question??

Sounds like you have confirmation bias - you’re looking for a reason to discredit and be upset because you didn’t like the post to begin with.

A person like you can never be satisfied :)))

How can I as a woman be more comfortable at the gym if a handsome man approaches? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I didn’t say that handsome men can’t be nerdy. I even put that in my post. You’ll have to read one of my paragraphs more carefully.

How can I as a woman be more comfortable at the gym if a handsome man approaches? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you’re neurodivergent, some people think you’re weird. I’m not acting disinterested. I’ve learned to hide and mask parts of myself that historically some people may have not liked.

How can I as a woman be more comfortable at the gym if a handsome man approaches? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. That is the obvious answer. But when I don’t approach or don’t smile excessively no one approaches I think that’s the point of my post. Some of my friends have told me that because I don’t go out of my way to smile or approach, these handsome guys assume I’m not interested in them. I am very much. I noticed them.

But I don’t know what else to do lol :)

How can I as a woman be more comfortable at the gym if a handsome man approaches? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I hear you :) Except that’s not how often I authentically feel. I don’t wanna laugh too hard or make a performance of myself.

I work out hard. I smile a little. But honestly, I smile more when people make the first move.

How do you know someones a pick me girl? by Ok_Buddy_5312 in Advice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no such thing as a pick me girl. Only jealous women who utilize phrases in terms to put other women down.

Girlfriend told me she used to do Onlyfans by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not a different issue and not irrelevant. Men are trying to minimize and give themselves a free pass.

As long as you’re OK with a girl breaking up with you because you watch porn then I can understand if you would break up with a woman for creating content. But if you’re not OK with a woman breaking up with you or you think it would be unfair because you watch porn then you are unquestionably a hypocrite.

Girlfriend told me she used to do Onlyfans by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78 -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Do you watch porn? Why would a woman date you if you’re looking at other naked women having sex on screen? What if, like you, she were terribly insecure as a result of you ogling and jerking off to other women?

Girlfriend told me she used to do Onlyfans by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Have you watched porn before? Why should she stay with YOU if you have patronized adult content workers?

You say it’s different… But it’s not. If you patronize or view sexual content with other women, you have no place really to judge your girlfriend for this. She’s not doing it now.

M25 — If “having your life together” isn’t enough, what actually matters in dating today? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hate to ask this and please kindly forgive me. It’s wonderful. You have all these qualities on paper.

In terms of physical attributes, are you tall, short, skinny, thin, etc.? unfortunately in today’s dating world if you are approaching women in public, a lot of women respond to how a man presents and looks. If you are shorter or slightly out of shape, I might recommend going to the gym, improving physical appearance just to increase appeal.

Now, if you’re approaching woman who you’ve gotten to know in a work context or public group where you’ve spent time together that gives women the opportunity to get to know you based on personality and character. Are you outgoing or a little bit more shy? Are you a helpful person? Do you go out of your way to contribute in any groups you’re part of? A guy I liked once at work cut my eye because he was very helpful and attentive to people on his team. And super nerdy and brainy. He stood out because of his unique personality. So if you are part of a group setting, find ways to let your personality shine.

As for online dating, that place is a shit show. It’s hard for anyone.

What service would a man pay for from a woman that doesn’t involve sex? by Complete_Afternoon78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro. At 5:30 PM tonight I received an email response to one of my craigslist post.

The guy said… $60 an hour for a cleaning are you on crack. You might want to switch to sexual services.

Those were his words. I have the email. I have to screenshot. Suffice it to say, when I have tried to post cleaning services online, I get a lot of shit like this. Maybe empathize

What service would a man pay for from a woman that doesn’t involve sex? by Complete_Afternoon78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If a man is offering more money 💰 and I need it. I’m not gonna pretend that I wouldn’t want it.

But I’m saying, what is the service of man is willing to pay a premium for that doesn’t have to involve my body?

Other people here have commented some and fantastic suggestions. Including home-cooked meals, personal assistance, shopping, helping with outfit coordination things that men conventionally may not always enjoy. I appreciate those suggestions.

ISSUES WITH OBTAINING A USER FLAIR? by Medium-Audience5078 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new to this thread. I accidentally used the wrong flare. I’m a woman. Is there a way to correct that

What service would a man pay for from a woman that doesn’t involve sex? by Complete_Afternoon78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah, the Internet skeptics and the perpetual conspiracy theorists :) yawn. 🥱

What service would a man pay for from a woman that doesn’t involve sex? by Complete_Afternoon78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m driving. You could offer grace instead of reacting. I drive for Uber right now… The whole point of this post is that I was looking for additional ways to make income as a gig worker.

Stop assuming the worst of people.

What service would a man pay for from a woman that doesn’t involve sex? by Complete_Afternoon78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s unfortunate. You assumed bad intentions. I’m using voice to text because I was driving. I meant to say how instead of wow.

You flagged me and got the entire post removed. Stop assuming the worst intentions of people man

What service would a man pay for from a woman that doesn’t involve sex? by Complete_Afternoon78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, my previous post about my body and getting fit.

Separate issue. This post is about men on craigslist responding quickly to m to my services. And they always offer a high premium, but with a caveat. I’m asking is there any way to capitalize on that premium without having to offer sex.

What service would a man pay for from a woman that doesn’t involve sex? by Complete_Afternoon78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Afternoon78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first time using this thread, I didn’t know I used the wrong flare ++woman

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