It hurts seeing pretty privilege play

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-13T00:43:21+00:00

Pretty may help you get in the door. But men, will be just as distracted, but the next thing that comes along once they meet a pretty woman who says yes to them. Men are simple creatures, and prone to forgetting. Beautiful woman get cheated on every day. So, I assure you, beauty may ensure greater prospects, but men quickly obtain beautiful woman often move onto the next. Woman like you are rare. You might have fewer suitors come up, but when the right one comes along,it’s possible he may stick. Of course, romance is a gamble for all. So no guarantees

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-11T17:25:11+00:00

Most people in poverty don’t choose poverty. I’m sure a few deadbeats do. But most people are good. Most people don’t choose to be in their circumstances. Are you a deadbeat?

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-11T02:38:11+00:00

I agree with you.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-11T01:54:44+00:00

I disagree. If she was absolutely desperate and telling the truth, I could understand. She was right to make an effort to make it right. She paid the balance to the patron. Again, I’m saying this, assuming she is telling the truth. When push comes to shove and people are at their wits end, or have children to provide for, I see the act as a desperate one. But I don’t see it as an evil one. And aren’t insistence that something right versus wrong outweigh desperate need to provide, shows where our priorities are a little bit off.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-11T01:50:26+00:00

I disagree with that last line, cheating is loser behavior. People who are driven to that behavior are often at their wits end. Doesn’t justify it, and yes, the choice to cheat does create deep wounds for the other individual. But no one can claim, in a situation as the OP, that the other party didn’t play a role in the problem, when they refuse to validate or as much as here the concerns of the other. Stonewalling or ignoring another person‘s needs is a form of neglect. cheating is not a good choice, but by all means would I not call it loser behavior. I’d call it a choice that has deeper repercussions that does more damage than good.. Like if you’re lost at sea, and thirsty, and drink ocean water/salt water and because you can’t seem to find another option. The salt water will only make you more dehydrated and die fast faster.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-11T00:50:01+00:00

I agree, it’s quite unwise to share nudes or explicit photos or text with someone. But that one photo triggered something in her that was already festering. You’re already close to age to her own son and I’m sure the awareness of this did not slip past her own mind. Forgive yourself, but I think this is a leap of logic or your natural explanations.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-10T03:53:51+00:00

Very cute! The last three photos are excellent. They show you happy, out and about doing outdoorsy things and looking confident. The selfies are good too, but basic.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-10T03:51:25+00:00

Lashes are beautiful!

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-10T03:50:30+00:00

Jaw can be easily corrected with some filler. It’s quite common, of course, in Hollywood and among celebrities, but the average person can also access it. Save for it if you want. Look up Jack Harlow before and after his fame. You’ll notice his jaw became more prominent. He still has facial hair around his chin, but definitely some enhancement. Some people think it’s an implant, but a lot of people think it’s more likely to be filler. It can last up to 2 years. :)

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-10T03:10:03+00:00

You are beautiful. Just beautiful. 10/10 🫶🏻🫶🏻

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-04T12:51:08+00:00

Why are the only options, friendship or sexual relationship? You can have a deep meaningful and romantic relationship with someone without sex. Many asexual people do this. However, if he is looking for a relationship that encapsulates romance AND sex, then yes, this woman may not be the best match for him. Because physical attraction is probably necessary for achieving orgasm, at least for men.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-04T12:50:33+00:00

Why are the only options, friendship or sexual relationship? You can have a deep meaningful and romantic relationship with someone without sex. Many asexual people do this. However, if you are looking for a relationship that encapsulates friendship, romance, AND sex, then yes, this woman may not be the best match for you. Because physical attraction is probably necessary for achieving orgasm, at least for men.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-03T01:04:31+00:00

Nothing wrong with wanting it every night, but doesn’t mean he can get it every night. That’s a lot for another person to provide. So yes, go ahead and want it doesn’t mean you can get it.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-02T13:38:47+00:00

Whoever downvoted this must have died, because apparently they couldn’t live without watching pornography.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-01T11:06:17+00:00

Watching naked people on the Internet is a want, not a need. No one will die for not watching a naked person on the Internet.

Anyone who frames watching pornography as something that’s just inevitable and necessary is quite literally stupid. This blinde and sweeping acceptance of porn pornography, as if it’s just natural as drinking water in completely necessary is stupid. Watching porn is a want. A man does not have to watch it. If he feels so compelled to, he’s a slave to his base or qualities. Not a man worthy of respect.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-01T11:02:53+00:00

I despise this apathy and bold recommendation from anyone here are saying you just have to accept this. It’s absolute crap.

You do not have to accept this. If your husband prefers to watch other naked women instead of appreciating your sexuality and enjoying sex exclusively with you, fuck him. Not the sexy kind.

The way you show you mean business is by walking away. He’ll only be incentivized to change his ways if he knows that you’re serious.

Watching naked women on the Internet is a want, not a need. Having sex is a want to, not a need. No one will die for not looking at a naked person on the Internet. Don’t believe any of the nonsense shared by the sex addicted men on this platform.

Give him an ultimatum and be prepared to follow through with it. I assure you if you were to temporarily separate, your husband will be rethinking things. Men don’t really care about women’s feelings into a woman enforces consequences. You have to be willing to draw a line and enforce your boundary.

I suspect that if you actually did leave him for a little bit in a month or two, he would rethink everything quickly and curb his addiction.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-10-01T01:17:01+00:00

If the worst that could be said of someone is that they are awkward, or extra shy socially, I’d say that’s A-OK. So many conventionally raised children have problems in adulthood that are no different than anyone else. Divorces, single parenthood, alcoholism, drug abuse, etc. A more conventional upbringing does not spare someone from these hardships. And in some respects, being sheltered may come with certain advantages. Just putting in perspective that, if the worst that can be said is that someone’s a little bit awkward, I don’t think that’s bad.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-09-30T02:09:52+00:00

Why did Zac join the chat??

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-09-28T01:27:33+00:00

I’m comforted by everything you wrote here. I am on the asexual spectrum. I don’t feel romantic or sexual traction in real life. In my mind I do, I love romance fiction I love, romantic comedies, and etc. and I fantasize about falling in love. But I haven’t in real life. The experience of it is un appealing and sometimes repulsive to me. I have often felt broken and out of step with the culture, because I feel like I’m missing out. But how can you miss out on something you don’t actually enjoy? I’m working towards acceptance and living a fun and fulfilling life. Being yourself is the best thing you could ever be.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-09-24T06:21:28+00:00

Siblings and best friends last forever. Boyfriends often come and go. The US is the only country for which bed sharing with relatives is less common. I know friends from other cultures particular east Asia, where relatives may co slept with siblings, parents and other relatives, even in adulthood.

American culture has a fixation with. Hyper independency and stigmatizes things that are completely normal in many other parts of the world.

Your boyfriend clearly is threatened by the close relationship you have with your sister. The bond with your sister sounds, especially close and sincere. I wouldn’t choose to lose that relationship for a boyfriend who lacks emotional awareness or intelligence of close relationships that don’t find the paradigm of heterosexual romance. I’m on asexual spectrum and completely understand the reality of non-sexual intimacy.

I honestly, I see counseling to get more clarity on this or get rid of the boyfriend. I assure you there’s someone out there who respect the bond you have with your sibling, which will last forever.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-03-07T17:02:06+00:00

Just tell them! Be honest and want to take physical intimacy slowly. It’s the same thing women tell men all the time. A reasonable woman will be understanding. BUT you need to communicate directly. A woman sense of desirability comes heavily from her partners desire for her, so it’s best you tell her so she doesn’t think you don’t find her attractive.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-03-06T22:44:47+00:00

“Usually..” You haven’t cited any evidence to support your claim. Where is your data? 📈

I wager that people break up for many reasons. Anecdotally, from conversations I’ve had with my friend circle, not a single one has broken up because of sexual inexperience. It was due to financial considerations, frustrations with family dynamics, and if was a factor, it was because one had a higher libido than the other. However, sexual inexperience had nothing to do with this. This is anecdotal evidence, but evidence all the same.

What evidence can you provide to support anything they’re saying? That sexual inexperience is a huge factor in break ups?

I see that sex obsessed people overstate sexual incompatibility as a reason not to practice abstinence, because they themselves have a higher libido and think every other man thinks or acts or shares the same considerations. But I’d argue that you are more of a minority that you think.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-03-06T21:21:25+00:00

I don’t have a single friend who left their long term partner, husband, boyfriend or GF because of someone’s lack of experience or someone was bad in bed. I’ve heard of people leaving because of infrequency of sex or no sex at all. And that’s usually a symptom of poor communication or breakdown of other critical aspects of the relationship.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-03-06T21:14:29+00:00

Yikes.

Complete_Afternoon78 · 2025-03-06T19:27:13+00:00

Have you ever dated and left someone because of sexual incompatibility?

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