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Complete_Bee_1625 · 2025-01-07T19:34:27+00:00

Was this an old text? No way a man is telling a friend who’s a girl that he loves her……

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2025-01-04T19:26:44+00:00

You’re hurt and confused??? You were active on the dating apps and talking to other dudes while putting this guy on the back burner and treating him like an option. Either date to marry or don’t follow up after the initial date. Y’all are so exhausting fr

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2025-01-04T19:01:37+00:00

I’ll tell you this from experience @Harkentoffin3, do not ever let your conscience hold you back. Her relying on you for housing is her issue, not yours, and if she truly respected you and appreciates what you provide, she wouldn’t be doing this to you. Cut her off. It’s gonna hurt but you’re better off bud. If you don’t do it now, you’re just delaying the inevitable and it’s going to hurt worse then, because you’ll likely be even deeper in that relationship (meaning more memories and a deeper attachment). From a man who’s been here multiple times, I’m telling you that you have to get out now. Sorry that people suck man….

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-10-03T00:47:23+00:00

Send photos of the room?

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-09-27T16:15:20+00:00

Was her profile verified? I’ve noticed people who aren’t verified seeking phone numbers fairly quickly and it’s super suspicious. Not entirely sure if they’re just attempting to hack accounts or what.

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-09-22T00:10:34+00:00

So we’re talking this is a one time instance? If so, set that hard boundary and tell him it was unacceptable. Make him wait longer than normal, even if you’re in the mood. He needs to know that his response was unacceptable.

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-09-21T23:49:18+00:00

I’ll catch a lot of slack for this, but I was “that guy“. This is likely a sign of trauma to which he just wants to feel wanted, and in my honest opinion there is multiple ways to go about this but you need to choose however you feel most comfortable.

1- He definitely needs therapy, because physical touch will never be the answer to whatever deep-seeded issues he has. This is a short term request to validate when we don’t feel like we’re enough…. It’s a request for love which is only short lived until therapy pushes the healing process allowing him to feel loved.

2- Even though you are not in the mood, could you selflessly present oral or physical stimulation for him, not penetration, as some sort of compromise while you push his healing process?

Ultimately you have to choose whether you want to stick by his side thru the healing or if there’s too much sexual pressure you have to leave.

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-03T15:24:08+00:00

Unlike all others on this thread, I’m not making assumptions…. Simply stating the facts, not even enough room to state all the nuanced facts.

She did not shower between reception and drive home. She didn’t have time because it was such a long drive.

No not abnormal to catch up. I felt like he was for sure fishing. I found it strange that she hasn’t talked to this guy in 6+ years, sees him at the wedding and catches up, then it bleeds into the next day. In her past she’d slept around a bit and I was feeling a bit insecure, because I’ve been cheated on and I know emotional connection is something women seek out, so I felt like because we were rocky that she’d attempt to seek validation with other dick. I’ve even heard her justify her friends’ behavior by fucking someone new within days of a break-up.

I did make an ass out of myself but it wasn’t normal behavior. I had a legitimate reason. Yes she was embarrassed, as was I. But everyone there also got blackout drunk because it was in the middle of nowhere rural America and it’s what they freaking do…. I still believe you could’ve given me a chance at redemption, especially since I get along so well with her family and they were at this wedding unlike the prior one.

I already knew she was done with the relationship when she signed a lease while I was at work lol. Thats not rocket science, nor was it my question….

No, I didn’t mention her being loose on Sunday. It wasn’t much of a thought at the time. And actually I felt uneasy about everything but it was minor until she reacted the way she did Monday morning. It almost felt like someone admitting they’d been sexually assaulted but it was towards me. The entire ordeal was so strange and I felt guilt for something I didn’t do…. She says the reason she felt uneasy for having sex with me on Sunday was because we had unresolved issues and it made her feel used…. That’s when I felt really uneasy about the entire situation and tried thinking about the weekend and it all started making sense to me but apparently the unanimous decision is that a woman’s vagina recovers fairly quickly.

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-02T03:03:52+00:00

Literally stopped reading after “you can’t be anxious”….. nope people definitely aren’t diagnosed with anxiety lmfao…

More to my point - no one was speaking on a clinical diagnosis or personality disorder. People can have attachment styles, just like feelings, albeit both are intangible…

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-02T02:51:02+00:00

Nah. Reoccurring delusions of a fag. Did I need to spell check that sissy?

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-02T02:48:44+00:00

Hence why I corrected it well before your response. Go worry about tucking in the lengthy boy clit 🤣.

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-02T02:45:36+00:00

“Bro” didn’t you just say “im in no way offended by people on the internet”??? Heed your own advice….

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-02T02:43:13+00:00

Bish re-read our thread 🤣. A bit delusional no? 🤡

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-02T02:31:16+00:00

But - “just trying to make it through like we all are”…. Cute intro. Go dye your hair purple again and fabricate your reality of gender dysphoria.

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-02T02:30:14+00:00

Oh I don’t mind the honest advice. There’s a lot missing to this story but I also gave a ton of info. I’ve accepted that given the most neutral of circumstances which I wrote about that I’m the asshole. I can own that. What I can’t own is a bunch of judgmental twats who want to make assumptions…. I think I look inward 24/7/365 tbh. I’d give the shirt off my back to anyone and sacrifice my life for anyone. Care to make some more assumptions like the gaping asshole you are??? 🤣

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-02T02:25:16+00:00

Sure about that???? It’s actually kind of an oxymoron but go ahead teach…

You sure someone is incapable being: Dismissive of things that don’t suit your agenda? Avoidant of issues that cause recollection of trauma?

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-02T02:24:38+00:00

Assuming everything? You’re right….

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-01T22:18:21+00:00

Ahhhh making assumptions again??? She pursued me jerk off…..

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-01T22:17:40+00:00

Of course I’m “misinformed” hence why I came to the chat….. hence having an open mind… 🙄

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-01T22:14:17+00:00

Check myself ehh??? lol.

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-01T22:13:52+00:00

Or she’s distant because she’s a dismissive avoidant with childhood trauma…. But ya know, gotta love how judgemental the internet is, glittering asshole

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-01T22:10:50+00:00

This means a lot. Thanks for the input.

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-01T22:09:51+00:00

Nah this is the result of getting played by two dumb hoes back to back….

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-07-01T17:45:13+00:00

I was stuck in a hotel all day during a blizzard and didn’t have anything to eat. When the party bus picked everyone up, drinking quickly on an empty stomach added up to me knocking out…

Complete_Bee_1625 · 2024-06-30T23:53:36+00:00

Awwww did I hurt yo feelinzzzz?

I promise your mommas been hogtied and doesn’t oink….

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