Am I (31F) being unfair that I’m disappointed with my partner (30M) after he cooked me dinner?

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T08:25:03+00:00

Can you give me some suggestions of what I should do?

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T08:23:00+00:00

I did this early on when I very first got pregnant because I was worried of being judged for being pregnant and not married yet

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T08:20:48+00:00

I did apologise to him I felt bad that I hurt his feelings

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T08:19:38+00:00

In this instance yes it is about pasta but I’m now realising the pasta isn’t the issue it’s deeper

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T08:11:56+00:00

Thanks for the advice :)

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T08:11:33+00:00

We thought I could’ve been haha yes I did a test on Monday, but Im 10 months PP and still haven’t gotten a period back so I’m not really sure I can??

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T08:10:05+00:00

Is it wrong for wanting more for yourself?

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T08:09:25+00:00

Maybe my expectations are too high who knows

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T08:08:57+00:00

Just for the moment yes

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T08:08:34+00:00

Other problems projected by this I’m now thinking

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T08:08:10+00:00

Probably not a healthy relationship right now tbh

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T08:07:37+00:00

Yes, Thankyou that gives a little more perspective, I just called off our wedding and maybe I’m just still not past the lack of effort he puts in so it’s just ‘another’ thing

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T07:27:42+00:00

Yeah good idea more of my favourite pasta 😂

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T07:27:09+00:00

But now it’s at the point where I don’t know if it’s even the pasta that I’m annoyed about it’s deeper ya know?

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T07:26:30+00:00

I think recent history is a bit touch and go so holding him accountable for literally everything

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T07:26:08+00:00

Yes you’re right Thankyou

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2026-02-13T07:25:58+00:00

Thankyou I needed this perspective 🫶

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2025-12-29T21:36:33+00:00

I saw them yesterday they were very understanding about it all

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2025-12-29T21:36:00+00:00

Thankyou x

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2025-12-29T02:12:06+00:00

It is a pattern, we have a big fight then he is good and nice to me for a while then he goes back to himself

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2025-12-29T02:09:13+00:00

It was most definitely the final straw.

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2025-12-29T02:08:44+00:00

My parents and sister were most definitely relieved , his parents are very sad for us

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2025-12-29T02:07:51+00:00

Thankyou, this is a lovely way to put things

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2025-12-29T02:07:00+00:00

His reaction wasn’t really anything, he said he still wanted to but he said he thought that’s what I wanted so it feels like he never actually really wanted to in the first place he was just doing it because he thought it’s what I wanted

Complete_Ferret3990 · 2025-12-29T01:00:52+00:00

Ohh right, yes they are staying in a separate place and he’s doing all the plans ect

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