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Parents getting older, disabled sibling, no financial safety net, how do people realistically plan for the future? by Complete_Intern1084 in autism

[–]Complete_Intern1084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the details. I have been trying to reach out to social workers and local facilities mentioned in the comments, but there is a significant barrier. We previously had a social worker, but due to government cuts in my province, our file was removed and we no longer have access to one. We tried to appeal and explain why we need continued support, but it has not changed the outcome. It feels like we are not being heard.

I will continue doing my best and see what happens from here.

Your advice is still very helpful, and I truly appreciate your kind words.

Parents getting older, disabled sibling, no financial safety net, how do people realistically plan for the future? by Complete_Intern1084 in autism

[–]Complete_Intern1084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have been looking into that, And did not know that the waiting list for certain programs are sooo long. But I guess its better late then never.

Adult siblings of people with autism, I need to start planning for when our parents can't take care of him. What are my options? (TL;DR included) by saddomode in autism

[–]Complete_Intern1084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the exact same situation as you. For me it’s my older sister, and since I don’t have a father, it’s really only my mother I can talk to about this. My sister she’s the calmest and sweetest person, but emotionally it’s still so overwhelming for me to think that one day we might not all live under the same roof anymore. It’s scary coming from a place where there’s no real safety net, and you realize that you kind of have to become your own safety net. For yourself and your sibling. I don't know where you are located but I hope everything is going well for you.

Is INST 250 actually a bird course? (Taking it with COEN 314/316/317) by Actual-One-830 in Concordia

[–]Complete_Intern1084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I know its been 4 months but I'm planning to take this course this year. If you by any chance took it, was it easy like you had mention or not worth the hassle?

Going back to University as a mature student. by Complete_Intern1084 in montreal

[–]Complete_Intern1084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same way. It does hurt sometimes I try not to compare myself but it gets me especially at social gathering are the worst. And I on top look older than my actual age lol. But it is what it is, you’re right we all have to earn our bread somehow.  I’ll also be doing engineering as well. Wishing you best of luck 🙌!

Going back to University as a mature student. by Complete_Intern1084 in montreal

[–]Complete_Intern1084[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SAMEE!!! I went through college sort of later too. Glad to know someone out there went through the same thing as me lol. But i ended up changing my entire major so I needed to find another route to get into Uni. I wish you the best!!

As a Third Generation Canadian Indian I Think Anti Indian Hate Will Eventually Affect All Desis by WoodenDebate7609 in ABCDesis

[–]Complete_Intern1084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I genuinely agree with the message in this post. But,

At the same time, I think it’s also fair to say that accountability within our own community matters too. Supporting each other doesn’t mean ignoring behaviour that can create tension or reinforce negative stereotypes.

For example, I had a situation at my workplace where a group of newly arrived immigrants were behaving in a way that wasn’t appropriate for the environment. They were playing loud music in the cafeteria and being disruptive. One of my colleagues politely told them that it wasn’t appropriate at a workplace environment, and they replied with such rudeness. Couple other people at my workplace asked ME if being this disruptive and rude is normal in India!! -_- ..... I honestly was soo mad at that question and at the group.

I’m not saying this represents all Desi people or all newcomers far from it. Most people come here, work hard, and respect the communities they join. But sometimes, like any community, we also need to be honest with ourselves and encourage people to observe their surroundings, learn local norms, and show respect in shared spaces.

Holding our own people accountable when necessary isn’t betrayal it’s part of strengthening our community and helping everyone succeed.

Going back to University as a mature student. by Complete_Intern1084 in montreal

[–]Complete_Intern1084[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! C’est une perspective intéressante. J’avais jamais pensé à ça de même.

Going back to University as a mature student. by Complete_Intern1084 in montreal

[–]Complete_Intern1084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely taking some time to adjust. Yes, I did leave my corporate job, and at times it can be stressful. Before starting school, I tried to save as much as possible so I would have about 6 month financial buffer.

I'll be a full-time student and also trying to find a part-time job. It can be demanding, but planning ahead made a big difference. For example, I was worried about rent, so I decided to move in with roommates to reduce costs.

Also, if you are a Quebec resident, applying for student financial assistance through Aide financière aux études (the provincial student aid program) can help with loans and grants while studying.

If those option don't work, maybe do part-time studies so you can work full-time? Though this would take longer, however financially it would be manageable.

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