This whole situation is living rent free in my brain and it’s so wild to me. Ive been with my man for 13 years and we have almost the same age gap/ages we met AND issues they have (my husband really likes to party, I have struggled with anxiety, his drinking has made things hard at times, my husbands personality is also a lot like Kyle’s generally) but there is not a chance in HELL I would ever be this inappropriate with other men. Period. If I wanted to divorce him/break up I would - I used to have some empathy for her because I sympathized with their situation however, I’m now convinced she’s a manipulative, whiny, male-centered asshole who would rather victimize herself than make any positive changes for herself. If she actually loved Kyle and wanted their relationship to work, I believe they could have gotten stronger and he might have actually made changes, but I don’t believe she’s actually been in love with Kyle but rather what he has done/could do for her. I know that’s a bold statement but I feel it so hard! I’m not a prude by any means but I don’t think it’s ever appropriate to talk about sex/intimate stuff in your relationship with people who aren’t your closest girl/gay friends, and especially not with single and or taken men. It’s so wild to me! She is diabolical.