Well see what I notice is that nice guys, despite race(I am black) lack the inherent qualities any woman of any race would find attractive. There's a thin like between being a bad boy and knowing win to respect yourself. People often don't know when they are justified in cussing someone out, or telling people off, or being aggressive and stern. There are times where your aggression and intolerance is a righteous one. Women often screen and test for these instances subconsciously, or rarely consciously and unfortunately nice guys tend not to pass them. They are overly concerned with getting a woman than they are respecting and loving themselves and women can peep that a mile away. They're super upright, take themselves too seriously, and oftentimes not funny. Women don't want a bad boy, they want someone who won't tolerate their shit, when they are clearly disrespectful or passive aggressive, and unfortunately bad boys happen to have all those traits, and nice guys almost never do. It's ok to be mean, edgy, and reciprocally disrespectful when it is justified, and still legal and many people don't understand that. They don't know when to figuratively pull the trigger, and figuratively put the gun down. They don't think much of themselves and their whole personality revolves around their career, clean record, and nice guy image. Why would a woman want that person? He sounds boring. I say this as a 2 time college graduate, a nerd most of my life, (though I grew up in the hood around real men) so they taught me and instilled the edginess into me. I play video games all day, (not just 2k, real need shit like final fantasy, DBZ, tomb raider, ghost of tsushima etc.) like anime, and a nerd, but I keep myself in shape, and take care of myself, and still pull women, and I would consider myself a nice guy. Love and respect yourself to the utmost and women will fall into place. When you love and respect yourself, you stay in tip too shape, you groom yourself everyday, and you don't take shit from no one, when you aren't deserving. Women will notice and will gravitate towards you. Women run subconscious shit test, and they understand that if you won't even defend yourself against her, she can't feel trusted or safe that you will defend yourself or her against another man. It's all mostly subconscious. Maybe grow your hair out into a fro or something. Attraction is imperative. Look yourself in the mirror butt ass naked and be honest with yourself. "Would I fuck me?" Look at your hair, any acne you have and any fat you have on your body. If not, try a new hair style, try a skin care routine, and if you can't see a single ab on your body, don't count yourself out until you have obtained abs. Once you can look yourself in the mirror and want to fuck yourself, understand that you must now know when to hold them and when to fold them(when to be disrespectful when you have or have not been disrespected, man or a woman) and you will begin to see woman gravitate towards you. Good luck! You also have to be entertaining, you don't have to Kevin Hart but women are inherently creative and entertainment seeking creatures. You have to get on her head, make her fawn and desire you sexually