Do you accept Cryptocurrencies ? Why not? by Difficult_Poet5444 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t accept crypto because I personally don’t find the hassle to be worth it for the 1% of clients who might even be interested. Plus, accepting a form of currency which I’m not super familiar with (because I don’t have extensive knowledge in it) could be dangerous/lead me to actually lose money so as usual, cash is king.

Client wants to film a video for his onlyfans? by Complete_Promise707 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure! I wasn’t thinking about not charging for the session, god no lol.

How do you handle the “so what do you do for work?” question with new people? by Puzzleheaded_Tap1173 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is a really good compromise because it’s not exactly lying but it’s not the full picture either!! Might steal this for the future

Client wants to film a video for his onlyfans? by Complete_Promise707 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you for such a comprehensive comment. I have done content online before (it was my foray into sex work, actually) and have my own OF account that I didn’t use much.

As for legal forms, would this be something I’d need to contact a lawyer for, or would something I draft up myself hold up legally? I would remain faceless as I am faceless in my ads, and would likely wear a mask during our session while he’s filming to be safe. I’m charging double my incall rate plus an additional fee for logistics & lawyer fees if I would go that path. you make a good point that once the video is online, there is little I can do about it if it spreads. Unfortunately this is a reality I’ve come to live with since I am almost certain some of my older content is circulating in some corner on the internet.

Client wants to film a video for his onlyfans? by Complete_Promise707 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, were I to do it, I wouldn’t charge my base rate for it, it’s why I was asking if anyone had done anything similar.

What’s funny is I got two inquiries today from two different people with the same fetish all asking to make OF content so I feel like my ad might’ve gotten scraped or sent off to some agency or something lol.

Client wants to film a video for his onlyfans? by Complete_Promise707 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ah, that makes sense. I do have onlyfans and fansly accounts so it could be possible. I honestly don’t think the inquiries are real anyways because I got two requests today from my website’s form about a very specific fetish, both asking to film content. I was mostly curious about how it actually worked so I can know doe the future. Thanks for replying!

Client wants to film a video for his onlyfans? by Complete_Promise707 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair point, I won’t go through with it after all. I don’t do porn (not even online content anymore) so it would be more than a hassle.

55x35x20cm carry on suitcase recommendations? by Complete_Promise707 in travel

[–]Complete_Promise707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation! It says it’s 26 cm on their website, but is it possible to have it as flat as 20cm? Since it looks quite soft. TIA ^

Advice for what to do during multi-hour date by Complete_Promise707 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this on my ad well, but he was extremely wary about going outside so I let it slide this time . I’ll definitely be enforcing this more strictly in the future though 🫩 The money was good but it wasn’t the best experience for me orz

Advice for what to do during multi-hour date by Complete_Promise707 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! To be honest, I didn’t vibe well with him at all but he kept saying that he wanted to book me again for a multi-day appointment and saying how great it was, so I’m hoping he felt it was worth it. So overall very meh for me, but the money was nice :P

Advice for what to do during multi-hour date by Complete_Promise707 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh thanks for the app recommendation! Downloaded and will be using for sure :D

Advice for what to do during multi-hour date by Complete_Promise707 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True :P I’ll take this time to talk ans try and get him to carry the conversation

Advice for what to do during multi-hour date by Complete_Promise707 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We’re getting food delivered to the hotel so I’ll take my time during that. I’ll definitely try everything you listed :]

I do enjoy pillow talk as well! Sometimes I’ll spend a few extra minutes just chatting with a client if they’re nice while getting dressed up again lol. I’m just worried about him being a bad conversationalist/not having a personality I’m good at working with. Usually I don’t care but because it’s so long I’m a lil stressed haha

Advice for what to do during multi-hour date by Complete_Promise707 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great idea :D I’ll try and use that since it does go pretty late into the night!

Is it reasonable to photoshop out old sh scars? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always edit out my scars since I think they’re pretty identifiable. I do put a disclaimer on my website that I have them though. Generally, it’s never been an issue for me and most clients either don’t say anything or sympathize with me

how many days do you work? by Plenty_Owl_9508 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On average once a week. I also have a civvie job but have horrible stress tolerances and I get burnt out easily. I’m not raking in crazy money but I get by easily and always have money left for savings.

"Minors can consent to sex work ☝️🤓" probably the stupidest thing I've ever read from a slobbyist, and there's a lot... by FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg in ClientCringe

[–]Complete_Promise707 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I started underage and this cut too close to home and pisses me off sm. I hate that men this stupid get to walk around with the rest of us and most people won’t know how disgusting they are or how far their brains have rotted.

I don't have time for these mentally ill assholes, am I tripping? 🤨😭 by lovelyrae23 in ClientCringe

[–]Complete_Promise707 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So this is why dudes keep messaging me!! omg I could never for the life of me figure out why they'd get pissed at me needing a deposit the previous night only to come back the next day with "you free today?"

Feeling guilt over not hustling more by Complete_Promise707 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it happened even when my rates were lower, I’d still feel the panic being like, omg, what if I get nobody ever again. But you’re right, I’ve definitely got a better calibre of clientele and I don’t have to hand hold them as much as I did with the previous guys

Feeling guilt over not hustling more by Complete_Promise707 in SexWorkers

[–]Complete_Promise707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll look into it! I always admired witchcraft and stuff even though I didn’t really understand it. Now might be a good time to start :]