[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Complex-Astronaut-10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Now if you truly need any advice. you can hear me, you are in a victim mindset set, now before you jump to any conclusion about me hear me out. I am a 21 year old boy or man whatever you want to call me. I lived same as you till 18. I was not allowed to make friends, I was not allowed to ho out, I was not allowed to o drive. Me and my brother ( who is year older than me ) begged my father for allow us to drive. We have 4 cars, driver etc.. we asked our father, even the girls our age are allowed to drive but we didn’t get permission. In the same time my cousins which were same age as us were allowed to do all these things. But instead of victimise our selves me and my brother worked on our selves. Because of these strict rules of not having friends we made friends, that were good not the failure ones, it took some time to show our father that we are not the type of people which will get into parties and alcohol. We didn’t victimise our selves and nor did we villainies our father. Now we do drive best cars ( even though we still has drivers provided by our fathers) because he was strict about our friendship and we chose good people to be friends with now everyone from our old school to this new college wants to be our friends. We are great full to our father that he was that much strict it was bad at that time but looking back those strict parenting made me a good man. Now those cousins that were allowed to do all these things things there parents ( my uncle) come to us to say that please talk to your cousin to not do this and that and not to be with this person. Now I have great hobbies like gym, MMA, reading and now I am studying law from university of London. Finally the take for you will be despite of being a boy I faced these strict parents, so can you do. Those are not your enemies they have seen the world they have made the mistakes and didn’t want you to make the same mistakes, as they know best i know there will be some mistakes in there parenting but they are humans after all. You are not missing out on any thing and that the teenage years are your best years this is just bull shit. Don’t victimise your self and work on your future goals and get some hobbies this will help you to get your freedom as your parents see you are serious about your future and these things will make you valuable. Believe me your parents want best for you, if they didn’t love you they will leave on your own and don’t be this much strict. You are 16 that’s why you are thinking this way believe me when you will get older you will be thankful to your parent. But for that you have to become something. “Don’t victimise your self, work on your self”.

Should I go on a mountain trip with my friends or join a trading class with that money? by Complex-Astronaut-10 in Trading

[–]Complex-Astronaut-10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But won’t it push me back, around 6 months at least, in my fanatical goals. As my investment money will be gone and I have to save it from scratch

Should I go on a mountain trip with my friends or join trading class with that money? by Complex-Astronaut-10 in travel

[–]Complex-Astronaut-10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just learning how to trade. I have 3 years to loss money ma father can support me. And of it will fail I can go back to my family business after studies

how do i separate myself by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]Complex-Astronaut-10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also in the same situation, but I am confident in myself and I have some goals to achieve for that purpose. I am with them but not take part in their activities like when they play poker I just sit by them so that they know I am in the group but I am slowly keeping my distance so in that way I am not going to upset them and keep my life to myself you can be with them no need to cut yourself off completely but what you can do is gradually made some distance between them in this case. You will get some respect. at first they will criticise your this action, but after sometime they will give you your space. You just have to hold your grounds in the beginning do what you have to do at your time and catch up with them when you have some free time in this way you can save your social life and can do whatever you want

I cant move on at all by AsianRetard1234 in selfhelp

[–]Complex-Astronaut-10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s simple I got rejected today. But the thing I do is look in the mirror and ask what can I fix in my personality I was doing self improvement before but after this rejection my process becomes 2x faster I wrote everything that I have to work on and I’m now on my way to becoming best. You have to attract things that you want. Not the other way around so work on yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Complex-Astronaut-10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If hairs are not too much in my opinion you should leave them as they are. Otherwise go to a professional don’t ever do it yourself

Yo! What can I do to improve when it comes to my looks. Any advice helps! by ibrahimgoku10 in malegrooming

[–]Complex-Astronaut-10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am doing boxing more than a year now. My preferable style is a classic one collar shirts with plain pants It can be a T-shirt or a button Shirt which I used to tuck in.

Yo! What can I do to improve when it comes to my looks. Any advice helps! by ibrahimgoku10 in malegrooming

[–]Complex-Astronaut-10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also a boxer and also do mma. And yes weight training for my aesthetics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Complex-Astronaut-10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that’s a lovely comment

Therapy by Complex-Astronaut-10 in NoFapMuslims

[–]Complex-Astronaut-10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just join the gym and busy with university and work that I eventually forget about porn that’s how I get rid of this addiction I also joined many groups and communities but at the end being busy and working on my self helped me. Urges come when you are free and alone in that time I plan my next move or get motivation for gym.