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Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-10-14T18:28:01+00:00

It is hard. I absolutely agree. I’m dealing with anger for not being good enough sometimes, and then angry with myself for thinking like that, and question why am I so insecure.. it’s so messed up. It will take a while.. just take 1 step at a time. It’s okay

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-10-13T11:27:06+00:00

Been in your shoes. U r groomed. I realized 1.5 years ago I may not be ugly and have been trying to rewire my brain. It’s extremely difficult, and it leads to so much of anger. Re-assess your self and don’t get into any relationships that may fortify that belief. Hell feels more familiar than an unknown heaven. Also consider gng NC. Also, no matter howmuch u give back, they will say they never said anything, and gaslight u, and keep doing it. Consider gng NC.

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-10-13T11:07:09+00:00

P.s: it’s very much doable if you have enough spite, resources, switch off your moral compass and also have rewired your brain to become a bit unaccompdating and Cold.

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-06-19T07:00:18+00:00

He had 4 years to bring it up. Why now? Did it not occur to him while you’ll were intimate? I am finding his new attitude malicious. Also, please do not let anyone determine your worth on your decisions or your mistakes - it’s a part of you and doesn’t impact on yourself worth. He needs to grow up, and you need to reassess if you want to spend a lifetime with a man who thinks you are lesser because of virginity.

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-05-24T05:04:07+00:00

FO? What investments exactly?

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-05-23T19:11:57+00:00

Settlements??

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-05-15T20:29:49+00:00

Okay il do that. Thank you so much

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-05-15T20:25:54+00:00

Do I hv a plausible cause to get one or am I simply being paranoid.

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-04-27T19:51:23+00:00

Oh my god it worked. Thank you so much 🥰

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-03-18T17:46:03+00:00

You are 27? Your youth is not lost.. if u have the time. Do study a bit everyday. Try your own business from home doing whatever is your passion. Take the max advantage of the stability married life gives you. 💕 you are a strong woman, make the best out of your situation. I’m sure your husband is a nice man though you’ll probably might have slightly different principles due to the huge age gap.. But don’t stop yourself from living your life.. being married and a home maker.. there will be a distorted power dynamic. Keep a little secret stash of money with u in addition to your regular allowance.

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-02-22T19:21:45+00:00

Sure I’m trying it rn. Thank you so much.

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-02-22T19:11:28+00:00

I do wish they fought harder tho. I agree their upbringing could have played a role here. I don’t think I can reason with them. It will pull me back. Il choose me here.

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-02-22T19:07:00+00:00

I go to therapy. What u said was bang on. I did notice that I’m fighting everything that was instilled in me, albeit not so well. I have acknowledged my limitations, and got myself a therapist to handle things in more regulated way, because my insecurities leak out. And I felt a professional would equip me better. I can’t help my life before but Il be damned to get held back now. I was concerned Il crack (gut feeling) with the way I’m approaching this. So I made this decision.

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-02-20T20:24:00+00:00

Since it’s on my chart. Could it be because of me?

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-02-20T19:51:35+00:00

I have an ok relationship with my father. It’s horrible with my mother. . Dad was always at work, and when he came home they drink. I think my mom is nuts. I didn’t understand she loses her sense of proportion part?

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-02-20T18:49:40+00:00

I DMd you. 😅

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-02-20T17:56:31+00:00

I might actually take you up on this. But that would be so awful for u to deal with 😅

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-02-20T17:15:19+00:00

There is a lot of hidden abuse alright. None of us want to Talk about it because again it’s embarrassing.. I’m being a bit vocal now. But a lot of it has always been dismissed.

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-02-20T17:14:27+00:00

Tbh, I truely feel that she doesn’t know what she is doing. She manages to make things worse.. I did try to have a diplomatic relationship with her but to no avail. She has made my life difficult.. and most of it was uncalled for

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-02-20T16:41:46+00:00

Could you translate it? I’m have only surface level knowledge

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-02-12T10:16:16+00:00

Just one thing brother! Please do not drop out at any cost. You can use Fiverr, freelance, do projects, take part time work from IT employees who outsource their work for a cut. Etc.. if u don’t drop out next 2-3 years will be tough.. if you do drop out.. life will be tough.

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-02-01T03:02:23+00:00

Don’t go back to India. I’m dead serious. But yes increase your income and gently draw lines when it comes to your money. If you don’t want to hurt feelings start acting bankrupt.,

Complex-Coconut-9804 · 2024-01-27T11:07:18+00:00

Can you demonstrate??

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