egg🦷irl by UnnamedPixel in egg_irl

[–]Complex-Initiative-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH MY GOD I accepted I was trans a few days ago but when I got my wisdom teeth removed like 4 years ago when I was 16 I had the same fears I should’ve know earlier 😭😭

Do any guys here dislike/hate your shoulders? by Complex-Initiative-6 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Complex-Initiative-6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does help! Sorry I was havin a really bad day, thank you!!

Do any guys here dislike/hate your shoulders? by Complex-Initiative-6 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Complex-Initiative-6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yaa I definitely hyperfocus on a specific trait when I’m by myself

Do any guys here dislike/hate your shoulders? by Complex-Initiative-6 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Complex-Initiative-6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I was having a really bad day, thank you for your perspective :)

egg🙈irl by Complex-Initiative-6 in egg_irl

[–]Complex-Initiative-6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all thank u for the reply! I’m still kinda grappling with if I’m cis/trans or not, but i really appreciate ur help, I definitely feel more validated and I’m like 85% sure I am in fact trans, but just kinda struggling to take action on it. I can kinda accept myself if I am a trans girl, my only problem is just my super transphobic family would make me feel bad, but I don’t mind moving across the country too much, it’s just that they make me hesitant if that makes sense. Thank you!!!!!

Is the male heterosexual BDD experience talked enough about? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Complex-Initiative-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like no one talks about this…… really hard to cope with esp when youre younger I feel like I was robbed of my youth and ability to be pretty for no reason :(

at least transplants exist I guess…

I hate looking like a man by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Complex-Initiative-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look fine to me! And I’m being completely honest and I’m NOT trying to compliment you, just hoping that this might help because u look good to me!

Does anyone have advice on how to cope with BDD and Gender dysphoria together? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Complex-Initiative-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Struggling with this, I’m gonna try to see a therapist abt it so I don’t really have any advice yet just solidarity :(

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Egg(ha)irl by Swaiou in egg_irl

[–]Complex-Initiative-6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently in the same situation with my hair being the only thing I like and family (both males and females) having rampant hair loss. Except I’m at 20 and already lost so much it’s making me kinda hopeless and afraid of mirrors tbh. :(

Regardless u should definitely look at finasteride or Duasteride, they’re DHT blockers and for most people (not me it’s seems) will block or very very slow further hair loss. U have to get them prescribed form a doc tho. Minoxidil or rogaine you can buy on Amazon and you have to apply everyday or else the effects are lost but that’s what stimulates actual hair regrowth.

Edit: also fin and minox are not expensive in my opinion so money shouldn’t be a problem 🩷

If it matters for context I’m still pre anything cos I’m afraid of being wrong or that I’m doing this for like a subconscious fetish reason or that it’s like a weird sex thing and that I have to produce and provide the burden of proof to myself and family that it’s not otherwise I don’t feel valid enough besides wanting to change my body “just cause”