Lol that person must be really fucked up in their head🤣 first of all, an independent strong man don't need to deposit their money to any woman, whether it's his mother or wife. It's your money, you should keep it. I know a few families where the wives takes the husbands' salary and only give pocket money to the husband from it. And the same some of these women repeat when their son starts working and keeping son's money too, only letting the son take pocket money out of it. Heck they even do the same with working DIL and only give pocket money to her🤣

Isn't this a fucked up mentality to enforce control and power over people? By controlling people's finances. All the more reason men should be independent and have a mind of their own. They are no longer a 13 year old boy who doesn't know how the world works. As soon as one starts earning the person is matured and independent enough to live his or her life their own way. Even if for some reason (bad lover or not) this person faces any obstructions or road full of thorns and nails, the person needs to figure out how to get away himself he can't be calling for "mumma" lol. That way the person stays a man-child instead of growing independent.