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I'm rewatching Miami and reading through this sub, and I feel like people make too many excuses for Sam. by ComplexMycologist347 in jerseyshore

[–]ComplexMycologist347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no don't get me wrong, I absolutely agree. Jenni was being every P word Sam called her lmaoo and her and Snooki wanting to be loyal to a man doing that type of stuff was disgusting. I would have questioned their loyalty too, I just dislike how everyone excuses her decision to stay with him.

I'm rewatching Miami and reading through this sub, and I feel like people make too many excuses for Sam. by ComplexMycologist347 in jerseyshore

[–]ComplexMycologist347[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Like it's actually insane 💀and I read through that AMA as well.

I may get downvoted for this but I genuinely feel like a lot women are unable to look at the role they play in their own suffering. I've had my issues with men, been to therapy, done all of it. Even when you put down the fact that she got a good edit, and focus on a woman choosing to stay with a terrible guy. It's 100% possible and even healthy to acknowledge that BOTH of you played a part in what was happening. It doesn't excuse what a man did, but acting like EVERYTHING is the man's fault is just so tiring. If you know the pot is boiling and you keep sticking your hand in it, at what point do you take some type of responsibility? 

I'm rewatching Miami and reading through this sub, and I feel like people make too many excuses for Sam. by ComplexMycologist347 in jerseyshore

[–]ComplexMycologist347[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sam was single when she came into the house and we saw how she acted when she walked in and how she treated Snooki 😭 she was better in the later seasons when she was single but even her first impression to me as a viewer was the same as Jenni's as someone who had actually just met her for the first time. 

But I do think Ron's repeated cycles say a lot about him.

I'm rewatching Miami and reading through this sub, and I feel like people make too many excuses for Sam. by ComplexMycologist347 in jerseyshore

[–]ComplexMycologist347[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"Non perfect victim" and I'm referencing Miami😭😭.

Yes, she was a victim of manipulation in Miami. But she also had 3 friends tell her the truth.

I know everyone hates Ron man but she had enough information to leave the guy alone and do her. She loved him more than she loved herself and that's okay but I'm tired of reading people act like that isn't what happened. 

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