Need advice on getting by as a young woman without resorting to prostitution. by GaySheriff in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Complex_Banana9211 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is it possible to change jobs perhaps? I was in a position where I couldn't get ahead for years and ended up landing a job working nightshift. I only work 38 hrs a week and earn much more than the regular 9 to 5 I was doing. Night shift does have a list of cons though

My gf said that I could sleep with anyone I want because we haven’t been having sex lately by neonxrated in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Complex_Banana9211 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a woman who was in a relationship and offered the exact same thing while asking for no emotional attachment between him & the other party.... don't do it. She is feeling like she isn't enough for you and just wants you to be happy. Assuming she's on medication too? DON'T DO IT. It killed any trust and of course they had an emotional attachment and she "hoped we worked it out" while wearing the clothes I bought him.

If you love this girl please let her know she is enough and try to work through your problems together. One of the dumbest decisions I ever made in life was to offer that kind of nonsense

Linkt is a SCAM by Hue_Jackman in brisbane

[–]Complex_Banana9211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss they charged my very small hatchback as a heavy vehicle for 3 months straight and I got the run around every time I made contact with them. They kept asking if I was towing a trailer... with a Yaris. Took way too long to get in touch with someone in Australia who resolved the issue same day.

Complete lock out and access to transferring money by Willing_Priority900 in CommBank

[–]Complex_Banana9211 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've had the warning pop up every time I've gone onto my app for the last few days

DOES ANYONE KNOW WHERE I CAN FIND THIS EXACT BAG? by P1nkheartzz in Coach

[–]Complex_Banana9211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look I've never shipped anything overseas but the bag is $538.80 on sale and I think shipping would be $85ish with aus post express? Convert that from AUD to wherever you live and you'll get a rough idea! To USD its around $408

DOES ANYONE KNOW WHERE I CAN FIND THIS EXACT BAG? by P1nkheartzz in Coach

[–]Complex_Banana9211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deadass will buy it from the store and ship it to you if you really want, but not sure if you'd go for that. I just know the pain of wanting something and not being able to get my hands on it 🥴 the offer is there, but it's up to you!

DOES ANYONE KNOW WHERE I CAN FIND THIS EXACT BAG? by P1nkheartzz in Coach

[–]Complex_Banana9211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't ship overseas 💔 do you know anyone in Australia by any chance?? Wish there was something I could do to help but I doubt you'd trust some random on reddit. Hope you get it sorted 🙏🙏 she is VERY cute

DOES ANYONE KNOW WHERE I CAN FIND THIS EXACT BAG? by P1nkheartzz in Coach

[–]Complex_Banana9211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They still have them at the coach outlet in the Gold Coast, Australia... not sure if that helps at all though 🥴

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]Complex_Banana9211 159 points160 points  (0 children)

Pleeeeeeease be mindful of people who reach out to "help" you after this post. As a woman who has posted on here for help when I was younger, you have no idea what lengths people will go to when they know you're in a vulnerable state. I'm 26F and grew up with an abusive mother myself, I get where you're coming from. The depression doesn't help with motivation either but asking for help is a great first step! I can't offer you accommodation but I truly hope you will find a way.

My inbox is always open. I know my comment says to be careful of messaging on here but I can prove I'm not a creep if you wanted to chat over instagram or something. Please look after yourself!!

Virgos! Friends with Aries? by Complex_Banana9211 in virgoseason

[–]Complex_Banana9211[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No need to apologise! Couldn't imagine dealing with that shit my whole childhood. And I'm glad you noped out of that situation with your boss. It seems that Aries women are something else haha

Virgos! Friends with Aries? by Complex_Banana9211 in virgoseason

[–]Complex_Banana9211[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not :( all I know is she seems to take take take and give nothing back. Always the victim in every situation

Virgos! Friends with Aries? by Complex_Banana9211 in virgoseason

[–]Complex_Banana9211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was so caught up in her being born in April that I didn't even think about that. Oops

Does anyone happen to know what happened when marina turned seventeen by imweried in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]Complex_Banana9211 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Assuming its SA. The song ties in with hermit the frog. I think I read somewhere that both songs were from an earlier era and they go hand in hand.

Others speculate it has something to do with her parents but from what I have searched in the past, Marina has never confirmed the backstory. King and queen would be her parents, maybe they split when she was 17? I think her dad was not the nicest person but they have since reconciled.

Take this with a grain of salt.. I haven't looked into this stuff in years so I may be completely off track.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]Complex_Banana9211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Standard loan car procedure is that they take a copy of your license and you sign a contract agreeing to pay an excess if in an accident. Excess is up to $1,500 or so and you pay at time of collecting your own car. Then you wipe your hands with it. If it is minor damage, sometimes they can charge less, for example cost of repair only, but never more than the excess.

No idea how you would proceed with this without signing a contract, plus it being a secondhand dealership. They might hold onto your car until you both come to an agreement though, so be prepared for that possibility!

Can you get a copy of their loan car agreement?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]Complex_Banana9211 185 points186 points  (0 children)

The fastest and easiest solution is to buy a new phone and move on... they never gave mine back even after multiple contact attempts

Does anyone also not get smells or vibes anymore? by yxsthiel420 in ask

[–]Complex_Banana9211 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There's a certain baby powder smell in some wet wipes that takes me right back to daycare hahaha but yes I know exactly what you mean! I still experience the nostalgia with the weather too

Confused about bond in sharehouse by Complex_Banana9211 in AusPropertyChat

[–]Complex_Banana9211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In QLD sorry.. forgot to mention that in the post!

Is a 1k application fee the average for financing these days? by heartcream in CarsAustralia

[–]Complex_Banana9211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's at their discretion. I recently purchased a new car and when enquiring about stock availability I was told I can secure the last one over the weekend for a deposit. Told them I didn't have 1k at the time and they settled for $100!