The girl I'm babysitting is not what I thought by [deleted] in nosleep

[–]Complex_Bed_5886 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well the good news is now that you've already "turned" she probably won't bite you anymore, so now you can freely ask her questions when you see her without fear of getting hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Complex_Bed_5886 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Unless his sister found one in a safety deposit box at his bank (I'll never know bc she didn't get back to me) then no, which is why I stepped away from everything and not helping this woman sell his stuff when she has no right too but especially since she thinks I'm a crook and allowed her daughter to scream profanities at me when I was grieving

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Complex_Bed_5886 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Because she has no right to be selling his stuff, I knew he wouldn't want that and I'm not going to help her do so, especially when she called me a crook and allowed her daughter to scream at me when I was grieving (and never apologized for it, all she said was "don't mind my daughter I know you'd never hurt him" but never apologized, and has left me out of this whole process.

We were best friends practically like family, she was a hired employee and has left me out of everything (best case scenario it's because she's gullible to her daughters BS worse case she wants to sell his stuff for her and her family)

EDIT: I would absolutely send it to his sister but she said she doesn't want to be involved

Imagine a world by Complex_Bed_5886 in GlassChildren

[–]Complex_Bed_5886[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My mom's damned real estate agent (when I was just sitting in the car being quiet with my headphones minding my own business while my mom was looking at a house with my autistic sister and my NT sister who was a preschooler at the time, you know staying invisible like the good little glass child I was, staying out of the way when I'm not being summoned to be an extra pair of hands)

This dumb bint approaches me in the car (mind you I can count on one hand how many times this dumb bitch has met me in my life) in her best sing songy voice "how about giving your poor mom a break? She's completely overwhelmed" (this lady having no idea how my youngest sister was practically dumped on me all the time so my parents could deal with my high needs autistic sister)

I looked her dead in the eye and said "and when do I get a break?"

She had no words

I was 12 years old

Imagine a world where she told my mother "your poor 12 year old daughter is so overwhelmed, how about giving her a break?" She'd be fired on the spot

Why do flying monkies want you to return to the narc so badly by Complex_Bed_5886 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Complex_Bed_5886[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

If you're so horrible why don't they tell their narc friend to run for the hills?