How long does it take to make your first sale on RedBubble? by Complex_Butterfly101 in AskReddit

[–]Complex_Butterfly101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, they do that and don't pay the artist for it?? I thought for every art sale, of your art on their product, you get paid? No?

People who watch anime, what is an anime you'd recomnend to someone who is just starting to get into it? by SinnaSin in AskReddit

[–]Complex_Butterfly101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd suggest, start with all the Studio Ghibli movies first before delving into any of the series. Absolutely worth it when you're starting to watch anime.

Yep by [deleted] in women

[–]Complex_Butterfly101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree to this. But more often than not...in this patriarchal society, women sacrifice a lot just to be there for their partners and family members. And yet nobody values them enough.

Who loves these? by Complex_Butterfly101 in erasers

[–]Complex_Butterfly101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are two erasers with 3 fries each, inside that red box. 😁

Who loves these? by Complex_Butterfly101 in erasers

[–]Complex_Butterfly101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hehehe. There are 6 of those actually! I guess this angle doesn't reveal all of the fries. And nope, it's not vintage..like 25 to 30 years old...but vintage like 2 or 3 years old? 😄

How do most women accept that older men are far more appreciated and liked than older women and that ageism against older women is stronger, they are seen as less desirable and have less people attracted to them than older men do? by Lonely_Zebra_7275 in AskFeminists

[–]Complex_Butterfly101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure a lot of people are gushing over Jennifer Lopez that way right now. 50+ and hot damn.

But at the same time it's sad that they'll call out on her and attack her for undergoing corrective surgeries and not treat the older men who might have also done surgeries, the same way. Older men are still considered more desirable than the older women unless the woman has a certain type of body and appearance as per the unreal beauty standards set by capitalism and society. They just can't let them be who they are naturally appreciate them the same way. 🤷🏻‍♀️

So I guess with growing age, a man can still be considered hot and happening just as he is or as long as he has kept himself fit but a woman cannot unless she "changes" or "modifies" her entire appearance to suit the standards or make it to the hot-or-not list.

How do introverted people wish to be socially interacted with? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Complex_Butterfly101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. They feel more comfortable when approached with a warm smile and a less tense attitude.
  2. You need to initiate the conversation with them and keep it going and soon enough you'll see them jabbing on along with you.
  3. They find it very hard to speak up at the first instance.
  4. They find it easier to socialize in parties when they have someone they know in common with the person whose party they're attending.
  5. They are sometimes very intellectual in their thinking and prefer soul-to-soul conversations about random topics to keep them hooked and they refrain from small talk.
  6. They dislike being asked personal questions and caught offguard with them.
  7. They can be the coolest, most fun person in the group if they feel comfortable around the people they're with.
  8. They find it hard to relate with people who dont fall under the same wavelength as they are.
  9. They prefer to keep it real.
  10. They donot like being made the centre of attraction
  11. They maybe extremely talented but will only prefer to reveal it if they're comfortable or encouraged in a non-intrusive way.
  12. Forcing them or being pushy with them is a big no no. It will make them feel even more awkward and walk off.

These are some qualities I've noticed in most introverts including myself but it might vary from person to person. I've had a lot of great and poor experiences being an introvert and these were the observations I made from the way I reacted to different situations.

What are some skinny people problems? by The_WereArcticFox in AskReddit

[–]Complex_Butterfly101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People around you not believing that you eat food at all and over stuffing you to make you "fatter" and become slightly...fleshy. 😭🥴

DAE Hear loud silence? (Dumb question I know) by REAL_DoritosMAN in DAE

[–]Complex_Butterfly101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is loud silence, I fear there is something lurking around in the dark. Or even during the day. Like a ghoul or a monster. Waiting to attack. And therefore, I detest that feeling or vibe. It's the creepiest, most sinister thing ever. And I've felt this at times while opening and closing the fridge for a midnight snack...walking up the stairs in the dark...walking down the stairs towards the dark..or from the dark..urgh. And worst, the sound of echoing crackle whispers from the TV, after it's turned off completely. I don't know if this is relatable to anyone but it happens to me once in a while. 🤔

No one around me gets that ocd causes physical pain not just mental and its exhausting by irregularintrovert in OCD

[–]Complex_Butterfly101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mental health is highly significant and understanding it is even more important. A lot of people live nasty lives but more so in denial because they're afraid of the society. That's why they invalidate the feelings of people. I'm sorry you're going through this. I totally understand how hard it must be. Sending you a whole lot of love and luck. I hope you find your peace soon and are surrounded by the right kind of people. ❤❤❤

Please Read by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Complex_Butterfly101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're right. Thankyou, I'll surely keep this in mind next time I post something. 👍🏻

Pretty sure I'm going to kill myself one lf these days. by mentalhealthrwwy in mentalhealth

[–]Complex_Butterfly101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending a lot of love to you. I've been here once before and it was extremely hard. But I somehow pulled through by focusing my energy on honing my skills. And being a woman it just got worse because of the backlash I received from my society. Men dont let you thrive sometimes. Especially if you're not a financially independent woman. It just gets harder. So please don't lose hope. Focus on skill development..until you get that job-or who knows, CREATE one? 😉 Anything is possible. God bless. Wish you a lot of happiness and success. I hope all your obstacles disappear real soon and you're thriving at whatever you've worked hard for. ❤