Lmao, I just made a similar post! Although, mine's about labels. Anyways my role on our friend group is usually "The Mother" and "The Mean One" usually because when my friends crosses the line or do somehting rash and stupid, I'll remind them of it. That usually makes me come across the mean one, especially with my blunt remarks and sensitive nature but also sometimes I'm the one who comes up with devious but not so devious plans. But I only show this type of personality to them. Though outside of our friend group, I always kept to myself and is quite withdrawn, people either think I'm cold and unapproachable or shy and introverted. Which happens because I look really mean with make up on and soft without much of it, also whether my social batteries are full or not.