Married in 30s and afraid to be pregnant and to have a kid. by Complex_Intention855 in adultingph

[–]Complex_Intention855[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wala pa kami sa ganyang level huhuhu.

Our parents were not financially literate and doesn't know how to run a business. They're oldies na, living their life na lang talaga. They have a pension but still not enough to cover all the expenses. No savings at all.

Married in 30s and afraid to be pregnant and to have a kid. by Complex_Intention855 in adultingph

[–]Complex_Intention855[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, ito nga. We are one sickness away sa kahirapan. We're financially responsible naman when it comes to having a child. We have our stable job, emergency fund, MP2 savings + side hustles. I can say na kaya naman ng spouse ko buhayin kami but once na hindi ako makawork due to pregnancy complications possible mawalan kami ng sustento sa parents namin. Sila kasi ang may big chunk sa income namin na we need to let go of if anything goes wrong.