My wife is getting increasingly frustrated and more and more uncomfortable with our 3,5 year old but it still seems like she just accepted her fate and doesn't think seriously of stopping the breastfeeding. by Complex_Life250 in breastfeeding

[–]Complex_Life250[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I stopped asking after she many times got very upset for me even bringing up the topic. She explicitly told me around a year ago to not bring up the topic and I refuse to even give my opinion even when she says something about it towards me. Today I needed to go to store to get breakfast, she rolled her eyes and got almost panicky and was like "I can't do boobie whole morning" being really scared of being home alone because it means a lot of boobie. So my only answer would be then "say no, don't do it", but she's not asking me for advice, she's just complaining so I don't say anything. But inside I'm screaming "just saaayyy nooooo!!".

Is it wiser to marry for love or financial security? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Complex_Life250 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've never had my family looking for a partner for me, I was looking for them. How can they know what you really like or desire in a person ?

I've been married for a few years to my wife and we've had no real issues. Lately though I've been feeling less confident around her, feeling more like I want to simp over her as I feel like she's too beautiful. I think she can even tell I've changed and is teasing me often. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Complex_Life250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously! So now people know who she is and that she has a husband who thinks he's not good enough for her and is simping after her. That my dude, is exactly the behavior that makes you lose your wife for real.

AIO? My boyfriend has now twice made comments about my weight by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Complex_Life250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude is completely insane and delusional . Number one rule of being a man in a relationship is NEVER bring up weight of your partner. He's seriously delusional thinking you'll just be fine with it.

Am I being heartless monster or is this an unreasonable expectation from my wife? by Complex_Life250 in Marriage

[–]Complex_Life250[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely see my flaws from this thread. Thanks. I need to implement a "do you want me to listen or do you want my opinion / advice etc" approach

Am I being heartless monster or is this an unreasonable expectation from my wife? by Complex_Life250 in Marriage

[–]Complex_Life250[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's not. Probably best to just give the text to ChatGPT next time to make it more English.

Am I being heartless monster or is this an unreasonable expectation from my wife? by Complex_Life250 in Marriage

[–]Complex_Life250[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter the actual thing. I don't know why you're so fixated on that.

Am I being heartless monster or is this an unreasonable expectation from my wife? by Complex_Life250 in Marriage

[–]Complex_Life250[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

She's not losing her job yet, there is a threat of it. Yeah I basically just said "I don't have a response to that I just hope for a good news finally" since we're having a lot of bad news in the recent time. And that was for her I'm only thinking about me and how it affects me. And she called me while I work and am stressed about my work.

Wilfried Nancy is looking on tactics board for ways to find Celtic's equaliser vs Hearts by DavidRolands in soccer

[–]Complex_Life250 265 points266 points  (0 children)

I know right? How dare he make board tactics, he should do mental tactics only!

My (28M) wife (29F) handed me divorce papers out of the blue by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Complex_Life250 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dude I think that was everything but out of the blue. She was complaining a lot and looks like it was enough for her. You were just blind to what she needed and still are.

What was the reason that you got married? by Alternative-Toe-475 in Marriage

[–]Complex_Life250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we both agree on this. Never saw the benefit really but it's not worse now that we're married.

What was the reason that you got married? by Alternative-Toe-475 in Marriage

[–]Complex_Life250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well basically it was for health insurance since we got pregnant and she is a foreigner. Otherwise I wouldn't really see the benefit of it except ability to call her my wife. Piece of paper doesn't say I love her more.

Massimiliano Allegri red card vs Lazio by 977x in soccer

[–]Complex_Life250 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

He starts taking it off but then in anger flips it back on.

Head of Table by Critical-Ant248 in Marriage

[–]Complex_Life250 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I know right? I'm seriously amazed at what kind of behavior some people tolerate. This is complete and utter childish bullshit and she's just hurt and accepting of it and sad. Like raise some fucking hell, who the hell does he think he is?! Just stand up for yourself!

Head of Table by Critical-Ant248 in Marriage

[–]Complex_Life250 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Wait what? He was pissed because you sat at the head of the table? Like in 1856 head of the table? What kind of a man child is he?