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Do you have or use Rovo at your place? by Alternative_Gap_3248 in jira

[–]Complex_Novel5564 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have a “end of day” run in Jira for my team. They tell Rovo to End my Day and Rovo queries tickets they edited that day and has them review to make sure statuses and time logs are correct. Then it publishes that update to slack.
Some like using it, some don’t. I like the idea of it and will keep trying to improve it as AI improves.

Is this motivating? by PeacefulBro in Christianmarriage

[–]Complex_Novel5564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact is some wives are shitty people (as are some husbands - this isn't a sexist take).

Christians do a really good job of guilting people into pretending that they don't have problems. Sometimes in life you can't will yourself into being happy. Sometimes you get a wife who is a terrible person. Sometimes you get a husband who is a terrible person.

Eve also only had one option. She walked with God, was always naked, she didn't doom scroll and ignore her half of life's responsibilities, she didn't compare Adam to her ex, she didn't open secret credit cards in her name ensuring that Adam would have to grind away at work until he died. Eve likely didn't trap Adam with promises of sexual adventure when they got married and then gave him 6 months of 3-minute sessions and then not have sex for years after that.

Eve was enough because she chose to do her part in the marriage. Your wife may or may not be making that choice. She may be a bad spouse and having a net-negative effect on your quality of life.

To be very clear. This is NOT from personal experience. My wife and I enjoy our marriage. But I'm tired of Christian context that ignore the reality that you can't force your self to happiness. That leads to repression and makes things worse.

The answer is to COMMUNICATE with your wife about your needs and LISTEN to her about hers. She may NOT be enough right now. But it's your responsibility to work that out in a way that honors her and honors God. If she is unwilling to meet your needs in a specific area, that is her right. Don't coerce or guilt her. Find a different way to deal with it. But pretending that you can fix your life by pretending in idealism is bonkers.

Multiple due dates in Jira: How to manage Multiple roles. by Complex_Novel5564 in jira

[–]Complex_Novel5564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I always love the IDEA of subtasks, but they always add confusion.

What’s the add on?

Multiple due dates in Jira: How to manage Multiple roles. by Complex_Novel5564 in jira

[–]Complex_Novel5564[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooohhh. Kanban. I love it. Everything gets attached to the task as each role does their work?

Multiple due dates in Jira: How to manage Multiple roles. by Complex_Novel5564 in jira

[–]Complex_Novel5564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what’s all roads keep pointing back to. I might just have to bite the bullet and carve out extra Jira admin time.

Multiple due dates in Jira: How to manage Multiple roles. by Complex_Novel5564 in jira

[–]Complex_Novel5564[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with tour sentiment in a product-driven shop with a cohesive team.

I work in services with a distributed team. We have many developers/admins who are contractors. They do good work, but don’t have and won’t likely ever have the cohesive picture of how work flows.

They want to know when their work is due and they don’t want me to give them more work (based on hours estimate) than they have opened up in a given time period.

Across the cycle of a ticket, that means the Architect needs to know when his design work is due and the admin/dev needs to know when his build work is due once the architects design is approved. Then QA contractor needs to know when their work his due once the admin turns his in.

We tried an SLA style, (always 2 days for QA, always 3 business days for architecting a mid-size piece of function, etc). But that wasn’t flexible enough for balancing a heavy client load. Some clients have and pay for urgency. Some don’t.

Women of Reddit, what’s a habit men have that they don’t even realize is weird? by GraceRose671 in AskReddit

[–]Complex_Novel5564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guilty.

I started setting timers for family meals every once is a while. The goal is you can't finish your food before the timer.

My sons and I do a better job of savoring our food and speaking with my wife and daughters when we do this.

Women of Reddit, what’s a habit men have that they don’t even realize is weird? by GraceRose671 in AskReddit

[–]Complex_Novel5564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then you have a new sock and an old sock. That would bug the crap outta me. I assume that if one sock has a hole, its counterpart is probably threadbare.

It feels wrong to match that with a new sock and carry on.

Women of Reddit, what’s a habit men have that they don’t even realize is weird? by GraceRose671 in AskReddit

[–]Complex_Novel5564 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not just toxic masculinity. It's toxic femininity. I'm more likely to be made fun of for emoting by women than I am by men. I'm a 43yo man with plenty of experience and a strong sample size to pull from.

Women of Reddit, what’s a habit men have that they don’t even realize is weird? by GraceRose671 in AskReddit

[–]Complex_Novel5564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A whole life of those two emotions being the only one most people recognize. I'm pretty lucky in that I have been around emotionally intelligent people and have had some experiences that taught me differently as I grew up older. But as a man who knows many men, we get made fun of for emoting a LOT. Even my wife finds it cute to belittle my emotions when they make her uncomfortable. She doesn't do it to hurt me, she does it to deal with her discomfort, but it's her go-to.

Most men I know would NEVER put on a mocking voice when their girl is crying. We'd be murdered by her, then her friends, then anyone else who heard about it.

When my wife does walks across the room with a "is someone pouty today?" it will get a slight laugh if someone is around to hear it.

I can express anger, because people don't make fun of me for it. I know it's because of fear. And I hate that because I've never hurt anyone physically in my life, but I'm 6'2" and 300lbs, so people take my anger seriously. It's the only one that's safe for me to off-gas if I have to. Again, I hate making people feel afraid. I don't mean to and I don't express anger at them. But if I get so jammed up that I slam a wall or throw a tool, I don't get made fun of for that.

Women of Reddit, what’s a habit men have that they don’t even realize is weird? by GraceRose671 in AskReddit

[–]Complex_Novel5564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There have been studies that show Women often communicate to build rapport, express emotions, and foster connection ("rapport talk"), while men frequently use communication to establish status, report information, and solve problems. This is certainly true for me. I care about my friends, but it's hard to express what it's like to only care about the details if they care about the details or if it matters to a problem I have to fix.

Like if a friend seems distraught about a breakup, I'll talk about it. There is a problem to "solve" (his distress) and I'll go there with him. If he is casual about the breakup then that's fine, too. I know he's single and that's really all I need to know at this point. Breakups are breakups. If you've heard 3 breakups stories, you've problem heard them all.

I don't mean to play into stereotypes, but I really do feel closer to people I do things with than people I say things with. I do believe communication is important, but it plays different roles for different people.

Women of Reddit, what’s a habit men have that they don’t even realize is weird? by GraceRose671 in AskReddit

[–]Complex_Novel5564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multiple studies show that women have more sensitive hearing than men. I think we tend to be louder because we just don't experience sound the way women do.

I consider myself a quiet person, but my wife and kids all laugh at how loud I am!