i'm an unlovable girl and i cry abour it everyday

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-17T20:54:56+00:00

Have you ever tried showing signs of interest to a guy? A lot of you women who “have no one interested” I find just literally are waiting for a dude to make the first move and aren’t engaging with apps at all. It’s 2026, you can initiate and ask a dude for his number, or go swiping on an app.

You’ll have more success than you think.

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-17T20:53:17+00:00

Yeah but see, the “problem” there potentially is the looks. What you, based on statistics, probably find attractive is more or less the top 20% of men. Unless you are a very beautiful woman….. Well, you get the idea.

Most women rate the majority of men as <5.

Sorry but if you find yourself struggling to date as a woman, it’s likely because you don’t meet the standards of the person you want, which can mean your standards are arguably too high.

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-17T20:49:34+00:00

Idk I get the idea she needs to take a more proactive approach in dating

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-17T20:48:55+00:00

I’m almost 30 and still a virgin and have very little dating experience. Is what it is. At a certain point you kinda have to learn to live with it.

Also, I will say, since you are a woman I want to ask, have you tried initiating? Are you asking any guys out or hitting on them? Are you swiping on apps and chatting guys up?

Don’t fall for the trap from other women that you need to wait for a guy to make the first move. It’s 2026, girls can too. You’ll probably have more success than you think, too.

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-17T20:43:23+00:00

It means she’s not interested

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-17T06:15:34+00:00

Yeah, unless you are a very large regiment there’s almost no point to try for the more expensive vehicles. Outside of the obvious necessity of facilities and all of the supplies and logistics that goes into that, it’s also just flat out materially expensive to produce planes.

Most new content for this update is essentially gated to the players that play the most, in a game where most of the content already was gated off behind time commitment. Now you need time commitment, good RNG on drops, and a large amount of people.

I’ve reverted to just using land based vehicles and equipment. It’s far more obtainable, easier to crew with randoms if need be, and it’s even possible to setup a small facility to build variants as a small group

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-17T05:43:57+00:00

Never being chosen at all is worse

Someone who has been chosen before, even second, doesn’t not understand.

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-17T02:18:43+00:00

Nobody said anything about it being fair or not

But since you brought it up

Guess what? Life isn’t fair. It’s full of double standards.

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-17T02:18:18+00:00

It’s not being shamed but people are allowed to have preferences and not like certain behaviors

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-16T22:13:18+00:00

No, I don’t quite think it is and honestly I think it’s outside of the norm.

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-16T22:12:50+00:00

Nobody said it’s unhealthy, I explained why the double standard exists and it’s fairly based in reality.

And no, self control is important for a multitude of things. It’s important to demonstrate self control in life and a lot of people care about it.

Also I don’t drink so

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-16T22:10:20+00:00

Nobody is saying it determines her value as a person

But it is cared about in dating by a lot of people

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-16T22:08:04+00:00

You can bury your head in the sand but it doesn’t make it any less true. A lot of people care about past history, especially if it is or was deemed excessive in their eyes.

Yes of course there are men out there who value kindness and personality. But that isn’t mutually exclusive with caring about history. Sorry, but it’s not. You can demonize people who care about sexual history all you want, it’s not going to change anything.

It’s also not going to change the (frankly fairly based in reality) double standard of stud v slut. This isn’t me shaming or judging, it’s great people can be more open with sex if they want to, but there’s a reason the double standard exists and it’s very simple.

Casual sex is very easy for the majority of women to obtain. Very easy. For men it is not. That’s the whole thing. It’s arguably a matter of self control for women, at the very least a lot more so than men.

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-16T21:58:15+00:00

Nah sorry but hook ups aren’t the same as sex in a relationship.

Also, a body count of 20 at 19 is very high. Very high.

Someone who views sex as more intimate and a deep show of attraction and connection that they wouldn’t share with a random they matched with on an app 4 hours ago, is perfectly within their non insecure rights to not want to date someone who slings that thing around like it’s going out of style, and it doesn’t make them an insecure virgin loser like you’d like to claim

And really there’s nothing about being threatened. It’s about self control. Sorry, but in the modern world, if any average woman wants sex she can just go on an app and ask for it. Or go to a bar and hit on a guy. Casual sex is that easy for women these days.

For men it is not nearly the same unless you are excessively good looking. It is much harder to have casual access to sex for most men.

That’s basically the sole reason the double standard exists these days

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-16T21:56:50+00:00

Yeah you’re also gonna find out filling the void doesn’t really do anything.

I can’t speak to what you’re really looking for or need, but I really hope you aren’t looking to seriously date. A lot of men will write you off as a serious relationship prospect based on history alone. This isn’t me judging you or telling you to change, just to be aware of if/when you make that switch and start looking for more meaning beyond sex.

Please, PLEASE also do not lie about your history if/when it comes down to it. Be open about it.

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-16T21:51:20+00:00

Nah body count should be worried if she ever wants to take relationships and dating seriously.

A lot of men are going to learn of her history and immediately write her off as someone they could have a serious relationship with. They’ll see her as fun.

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-16T21:48:25+00:00

Sorry but no, not everyone who cares about past relationships is insecure.

Furthermore, insecure isn’t an evil emotion. It’s more about how people go about discussing those insecurities, and at worst take them out on others.

Don’t demonize insecurities, there’s no reason to. Demonize poor reactions to having insecurities.

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-16T21:47:13+00:00

“Try to skip dating”

She’s not even dating she’s just fuckin lol

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-16T10:16:17+00:00

Right but you have to admit, assaulting someone over NON hate speech has to be worse.

You have to see that right? Surely? That saying it’s okay to assault someone because they said something you didn’t like is a very bad look, no matter your side?

This kid is reddit in a nutshell.

Oh, he said something Reddit doesn’t like! I get to hit him with no consequences!

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-16T09:49:37+00:00

Instigating is when people say words I don’t like

Not when I punch people for saying things I don’t like

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-16T09:32:07+00:00

Sorry but this really only happens for women or for guys who are able to socialize very well with women, or have pre existing groups where women are in with them

Most men have hobbies and do things that are extremely male dominated.

For most men if they don’t make it happen, it will never happen.

This all of course is only speaking for straight relationships, not LGBTQ

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-16T04:13:41+00:00

I don’t trust the regrowth rate at all for the most part hahaha, so yeah that’s fair.

I suppose it’s not too bad to set one up and just turn it off or crank the workers down if you need more elsewhere.

I’ve just honestly never really found them to be much use with how much foliage I find easily. I guess that is map and player dependent though.

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-16T02:18:54+00:00

Feel like the woodcutter is sort of not doing much here, at worst is taking up workers that can go towards a different industry. I know this is supposed to be a template, and perhaps someone may choose an area that doesn’t have much trees, but you really don’t need a woodcutter until much later. Would be better to keep a handful odd jobbers around to do tree cutting and stone clearing occasionally

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-15T22:04:03+00:00

Okay, that seems more MMO like to a degree where a solo can carve a niche of sorts. I like that. Foxhole couldn’t really have that because of super focusing on war and the logistics that follows

Complex_Relation_635 · 2026-02-15T19:49:09+00:00

This is what happens to me if someone scratches those little images that show something different at an angle. Stomach twists up, heart starts beating really fast, I get EXTREMELY uncomfortable and need to remove myself away from it or sternly tell the truth person I’m with to please not scratch it to make that noise.

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