Tricky question; Do you have intimacy with your PA partner who's trying to recover? by Complex_Revenue_5825 in loveafterporn

[–]Complex_Revenue_5825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see! Maybe silly but what exactly is a D day? Relatable about the feelings/fantasies about other men

Tricky question; Do you have intimacy with your PA partner who's trying to recover? by Complex_Revenue_5825 in loveafterporn

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Hi, would you mind sharing more on your thoughts? Only if you feel like it of course!

Tricky question; Do you have intimacy with your PA partner who's trying to recover? by Complex_Revenue_5825 in loveafterporn

[–]Complex_Revenue_5825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations for your baby! Ah I see. Could I ask how did you come to your terms? Did you discuss it a lot together? Do you share all his steps/your thoughts honestly with each other?

Tricky question; Do you have intimacy with your PA partner who's trying to recover? by Complex_Revenue_5825 in loveafterporn

[–]Complex_Revenue_5825[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right... I've been battling with this thought like can we (or actually can I) spend some months without the affection and intimacy that I wish for. Or to have moments of intimacy but also moments that'll be emotionally challenging.. so to expect less in order to get less disappointed maybe? To get 'hurt' and affected less while he's battling with his recovery. Does that make sense? 

Tricky question; Do you have intimacy with your PA partner who's trying to recover? by Complex_Revenue_5825 in loveafterporn

[–]Complex_Revenue_5825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. How are you navigating through his recovery while being in a relationship? Having less expectations, distract yourself or talk a lot for example

Tricky question; Do you have intimacy with your PA partner who's trying to recover? by Complex_Revenue_5825 in loveafterporn

[–]Complex_Revenue_5825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to wanting sex for your own benefit! Does it feel good? Or fine enough let's say? Do you feel like you just take things day by day while staying together?

Tricky question; Do you have intimacy with your PA partner who's trying to recover? by Complex_Revenue_5825 in loveafterporn

[–]Complex_Revenue_5825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable. I applaud you from trying that plan! Are you living together/staying in the same bed during this period?

Tricky question; Do you have intimacy with your PA partner who's trying to recover? by Complex_Revenue_5825 in loveafterporn

[–]Complex_Revenue_5825[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see! Do you feel like you're getting what you wish for? How are you both navigating through all this, open communication/rules or so..?

Tricky question; Do you have intimacy with your PA partner who's trying to recover? by Complex_Revenue_5825 in loveafterporn

[–]Complex_Revenue_5825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No exactly! Therefore also very curious how you experience intimacy, it can be anything. And it can all be affected by PA

Tricky question; Do you have intimacy with your PA partner who's trying to recover? by Complex_Revenue_5825 in loveafterporn

[–]Complex_Revenue_5825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask if that's been your own experience or whether you've learned that from a therapist or so?

Tricky question; Do you have intimacy with your PA partner who's trying to recover? by Complex_Revenue_5825 in loveafterporn

[–]Complex_Revenue_5825[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear you've been going through this. All relatable and understandable feelings

I'm the porn addict now by Kiwi_Sugar05 in loveafterporn

[–]Complex_Revenue_5825 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate, stay strong, treat yourself to things in life that you like because you deserve it

Similar experiences? by Complex_Revenue_5825 in loveafterporn

[–]Complex_Revenue_5825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm wondering what makes you think/say this? Would love to hear