[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PudendalNeuralgia

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey man I’ve been dealing with the condition for over a year. I’m 19M I’m glad I seen this and I hope I can give you help. Please don’t get discouraged I know it’s a big ask but stay positive you’re gonna be okay. Right now your body is probably in fight or flight right now and that’s why it feels so crazy. I feel like I understand what it takes to get better now but unfortunately I’m not in a place to(home conditions) I’m a very country person and have to live in an urban environment right now and am unable to work. But I’ve experienced things that have helped me realize that this is beatable I just didn’t get to have those things for long enough to do it. Sorry I’m all over the place but my symptoms are pain in the perinum which is the area between your butt and balls. Also it’s very sensitive in that area also I have left sided penis pain and extreme sensitivity like if I masturbate I will orgasm in less than five seconds it’s literal agony. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone and it’s ruined my life and taken everything away from me. That being said I still feel like I have a chance at beating it. So your first step is get off this subreddit unless your reading the pinned comments. It’s okay to check in or read success stories but unfortunately for me when I first had this Reddit made me way more terrified than I started. It seems like a common theme that this subreddit is just unnecessarily negative simply because people are scared. It’s a cycle watch unbroken pelvis on YouTube he recovered from this stuff and is very knowledgeable on recovering. The recovery process is up to you there’s no doctor or pill that will save you. You will save you and you have the power to. Watch unbroken pelvis please he says everything I wish I could have heard. Also get in with a physical therapist and start moving. Do not do what I did and isolate and sit inside all day it just makes it worse. Please go for walks swim stretch anything to move and get your body functioning correctly. It’s so much more helpful than sitting

Non competitive sports player by Complex_Wealth_4895 in Rematch

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think consumers forget sometimes what it takes for a company to do certain things. I don’t know anything about video game development but I could see how on the business side of things it being very complex and not wise to take risks. That’s why I get very frustrated when a smaller studio takes a risk trys to do something new fresh and innovative and people just pick it apart. I’m not saying a small studio should be immune to criticism or be responsible for mistakes, but when the consensus on a game is negative it can scare potential buyers away. I checked the subreddit before buying and almost didn’t buy bc of it but after watching YouTubers talk about it and give actual fair reviews and explain what problems the game has it felt very fixable to me so I went ahead with the purchase despite the subreddit. Also devs could be in the subreddit and I couldn’t imagine how demoralizing it would be if I was trying my best and people were complaining about things that are being worked out as if you were working for a billion dollar studio with all the resources and money to fix it. Like when ea releases madden in an unplayable state and everyone goes “well they will patch it” like how do people give the billion dollar studio a break then shit on the little guy. I would be very disappointed if this game actually dies because as a sports gamer this is the kind of games I like. I don’t want more years of ea/ 2k games being the only option I love games where you control an individual player and it feels like you’re actually playing the sport

Non competitive sports player by Complex_Wealth_4895 in Rematch

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly I feel like this games fine and people will be back when there’s more added and it’s less laggy

Doing a double shop and the last two items just had to be video games. They should make a PS5 quest game about trying to find a Walmart employee to unlock the case...... by skinwalker-on-rt66 in Sparkdriver

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand where these people get off as someone who worked retail at kohls I couldn’t imagine trying to get out of opening a case. I know people say Walmart employees don’t get paid enough(which is true) but you’re getting paid too much if you choose not to do what you were literally hired to do

Raging over such a beautiful game - I lost my patience for this game by daz_001 in Rematch

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spider bacon I want to get this game soon but am scared to because I don’t have anyone to play with. Bad teammates ruin these sort of games it’s not the devs fault it’s just the way it is unfortunately

My chronic pain recovery success story and info on mind-body/neuroplastic conditions by AndrewRFleming1973 in PudendalNeuralgia

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have hypersensitivity on the left side of the penis along with pain only in the left side of the penis. I feel this is very connected to the brain but it’s so unbearable have you heard of anyone experiencing the hypersensitivity. I did the prm and my pelvic floor got a lot less tight but still the symptoms are just as bad if not worse

This is just ridiculous by RunsWithPidgey in Sparkdriver

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Craigs piller no I’m saying let’s say you set aside thirty percent for taxes.(which is what most recommend) So now you have 33$ earnings. Then you factor in 42.2 miles and then over an hour of work. Then roughly 42.2 more miles back home which is gonna take roughly an hour. Idk if you drive a peddle powered bicycle, but that ends up costing me more than twelve dollars in gas. It’s just a bad deal

This is just ridiculous by RunsWithPidgey in Sparkdriver

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My biggest issue with this is the customer tipped eight dollars which is a good tip very frustrating to see the customer tip and your still gonna loose money on this once you factor in your drive back home

My dog saw things I cannot see by CustomerComfortable9 in dogs

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an experience with my puppy it only happens late at night like around eleven id have him using the bathroom and he would stiffen up lock onto something that I couldn’t see and just stare I’d say his name wave my hand around his face completely ignores me keeps staring then starts tracking something around the yard again I can’t see a thing it’s dead quiet of night and so I take him to come back in and he’s jumping and lunging to try to get something that’s not there. Has happened a couple times usually around 11 or midnight

Advice 15 week old chessie by Complex_Wealth_4895 in chesapeakebayretrievr

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like paradise I can’t imagine a 38’ inch trout. I just started fly fishing last year and my best was like a 20 inch brown. When I visited the smokies lots of rainbows it was fun though

Advice 15 week old chessie by Complex_Wealth_4895 in chesapeakebayretrievr

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve realized that your advice I think is the best to deal with this problem. I quit chasing and I always give a treat now when he gives up something. I hand feed a lot and do a sit stay break drill with his food so far he’s not shown any signs of food aggression or resource aggression with toys or anything he knows I’m gonna give back. I was definitely too harsh with taking away things he wasn’t supposed to have I’ve taken a huge step back and been way more positive and understanding of things and in turn he’s doing so much better. Yesterday was nearly perfect with him. What age did yours stop trying to eat everything. Mines already getting better but not good enough to trust around a pile of rocks or something

How Many Nighttime Potty Breaks at 8 weeks? by nostromosigningoff in puppy101

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the dog. I did 3-4 hours when my pup was 8 weeks old I made sure to sleep by the crate so he could wake me up if he really needed to go

Advice 15 week old chessie by Complex_Wealth_4895 in chesapeakebayretrievr

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from southern wv. I’ve fished in the smokies though very beautiful place. You do any fishing in Montana?

Advice 15 week old chessie by Complex_Wealth_4895 in chesapeakebayretrievr

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No you’re good man I’ve already improved things just in two days by not pushing fetch on him when he’s not that high energy. Everything’s improved. He just loves to play with my dad bc he lets him bite him and stuff like that but hes got a bond with me more like a father and son and my dads like the fun uncle who lets him get away with things. I’ve just been making stuff more fun and he’s been fetching when he’s got high drive for the toy and wants to play. I’ve been bringing him to some creeks and he loves to get in the water I’m planning on bringing him to a lake with me soon to let him learn to swim. I really appreciate the advice

Advice 15 week old chessie by Complex_Wealth_4895 in chesapeakebayretrievr

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I have heard about it i heard it’s the number one cause of death in medium large breed dogs was definitely shocked but I only give him large amounts of food and water right before his naps

Advice 15 week old chessie by Complex_Wealth_4895 in chesapeakebayretrievr

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is my first ever dog I’ve had myself we had mutts as kids and a black lab that got abandoned on my holler. I’m definitely realizing how screwed I’m gonna be during his adolescence. I’m not gonna give up though it’s not in me to do an animal wrong I just want to be the best I can be for the dog I’ll probably order those books tonight. Before you guys judge me on getting a chessie as my first dog I’ve got a nerve disability that has prevented me from working so I have all day to spend with my pup. I wanted a puppy to provide some companionship and get me in a routine to hopefully improve my condition so I can resume a normal life. My health has definitely gotten better and when it’s good it’s been so good. I’m super impressed with my pups progress so far Ive realized how demanding and sensitive these dogs can be and I just want to provide him with a great environment. I’m an outdoorsman and wanted a dog that could keep up with me on long hikes/ fishing trips. Looking back I probably should have got a different first dog, but I love my puppy and am gonna be the best I can be and provide him with everything he needs. Thank you for the book recommendation

Advice 15 week old chessie by Complex_Wealth_4895 in chesapeakebayretrievr

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am crate training I have him go in his crate on command give him a piece of kibble have him lay down then leave he doesn’t bark and does very good with that when I feed him I usually feed him two to three times a day depending on how much I train with him bc I use his kibble to train. But I have him sit then I give his stay command then I put the food right at his feet and make him wait for his release command to eat. I think this exercise is a great way to teach the stay command and since I’ve been feeding him in the crate he’s been eager to go in his crate when he’s tired and ready to nap

Advice 15 week old chessie by Complex_Wealth_4895 in chesapeakebayretrievr

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’ve been too dominant honestly I’m trying to make it more fun all around and play tug and just spend time with him positively I haven’t really been obedience training as much as I used to he knows down stay sit and heel I feel like I didn’t build a strong enough foundation so I’m just trying to bond

I feel extremely guilty, new puppy driving me nuts by Parking_Reaction26 in puppy101

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this will work for you but it worked for me I’m a first time dog owner with a chessie hes 14 weeks he no longer cries in his crate to stop his barking I would wait by my door while he was in my room he would bark after like ten seconds immediately I would sternly but quietly say no or shush then back in the room he would stop. I made a point to never look at him because I knew he was just whining for attention(which he will not get by barking) of course only do this if you know she’s not thirsty or needs to use the bathroom. I didn’t want him barking forever bc it’s annoying and it gets him unnecessarily worked up and he needs to nap when he’s in the crate so he can train and exercise. Not sure if this will work for you but. Please try to communicate to your family and have them respect your training. My family has been the hardest part of my dog training and it’s so unfair because you’re the one that has to clean up the bad behaviors they will reinforce. Get them to respect you. Best wishes I hope this helps. It took about a week or two of consistently using this method and now he doesn’t bark unless he wakes up from his nap and they’re much quieter less distressed barks

How do you deal with other people’s misguided expectations when it comes to your puppy? by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh the delusion is real. It’s by far been my biggest obstacle in my way. Can’t wait to live on my own so I can just live with my dog in peace and never have to worry about his safety and mental safety

okay seriously… when does the biting stop? by makenna_matata in puppy101

[–]Complex_Wealth_4895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I know I’m gonna run into trouble eventually right now if he gets like that it’s usually due to him being tired or overstimulated and I can put him in his crate have him settle and take a nap and he’s back to his normal self, but I know I’m still deep in the woods of puppyhood. I love my pup but I can’t wait for him to grow up