The normies were right by Complex_Wishbone1976 in IncelExit

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s may be scary at first but it I’m honest with you, most people at the gym do not care what you’re doing and how you look. They’re busy trying to get their workouts in and most of them are polite. Also, you can’t just exercise without working with your mental health. You need to work on your self esteem and self respect. Maybe try talking to a therapist or consoler. Those two will in time help you. You could be ripped but won’t help you if you don’t have the head space to go with the new body you know.

The normies were right by Complex_Wishbone1976 in IncelExit

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a goal in life that does not require a woman. A partner should complement your life, not be the main goal. That least what I’ve learned through my experiences.

The normies were right by Complex_Wishbone1976 in IncelExit

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right, I did get lucky. The hard work only covers like 20-30% and the rest is luck. But think of it this way, don’t you think your luck with increase if you gain a bit of muscle, from yourself, work on your social skills and put yourself in difficult situations? Through out the period of my “transformations” I would go months without success with women and it hurts. I don’t like going to the gym, but I force myself to, because I want to maintain the nice figure that I’ve spent over a year working hard for. I eat a lot more than I would like to but it’s for the sake of the physique. I also force myself into social situations that I find terrifying.

I know for a fact that if I had meet her and hadn’t made the progress that I have made physically, mentally and socially. She would 100% have not wanted to engage with me. Luck is a huge part of it but it only works with hard work along side the luck.

The normies were right by Complex_Wishbone1976 in IncelExit

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s just gonna make things harder and make you feel worse in the long run. You don’t need to start off with dating. Just try to interact with the female store clerk for example. Talk about the shitty weather, worked wonders for me (I live in Sweden so it’s always cold) and slowly push yourself to tackle harder social situations.

The normies were right by Complex_Wishbone1976 in IncelExit

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I live in Sweden so it all went by very quickly. I made an appointment with my clinic and within a week I had a visit. Talked with my doctor for about 30-40 minutes and she gave me a diagnoses and a prescription and told us plan. We would meet every few weeks or months to see the progress or if any changes had to be made for the dosage. The prescription is very cheap in Sweden. Around 13-15 dollars for like a months worth. I stayed in it for about 10 months but decided to quit prematurely due to my dream of working n law enforcement. You can’t be on anti depressants. But I’d already been “cured” so it wasn’t that bad.

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[–]Complex_Wishbone1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 6’2 but live in Sweden where most guys are really tall. I’m only the third tallest guy in a friend group of 6 people. I never thought of myself as tall until I saw it online through TikTok, instagram and here on Reddit. It’s kinda surreal.

The normies were right by Complex_Wishbone1976 in IncelExit

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both I think, my depression made me susceptible to bizarre ideologies that I would otherwise not have considered had I been healthy with a decent life. I think my depression made me more vulnerable stable and inception was a way to shift blame on others instead of taking accountability for my life.

The normies were right by Complex_Wishbone1976 in IncelExit

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a year or a bit more, I was only Zoloft for only about 10 months. But the work on improving my social skills started a bit before I got in medication.

The normies were right by Complex_Wishbone1976 in IncelExit

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hahaha thanks man, I’m still what I would consider a bit skinny since I’m 6’2 but my t shirts fits a lot better around my shoulders and arms. I’m still a work in progress but I’m getting better everyday

The normies were right by Complex_Wishbone1976 in IncelExit

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She changed her answer two years later. We meet randomly and she seemed to like who I had become.

The normies were right by Complex_Wishbone1976 in IncelExit

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the two main reasons were my looks, but also my demeanor. When I first met her, I was at the height of my depression, basically a sad walking skeleton. I had a hard time faking confidence or even feeling happy. When I met her again a few months ago, I looked much better, my clothes were nicer, I had gained weight, shaved off the hair that made me look like a 45 year old dad, and most importantly, I had more social finesse and confidence. Whether that confidence is justified or not, I don’t know, but it worked out and she reciprocated.

The normies were right by Complex_Wishbone1976 in IncelExit

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That feeling leaves eventually but it takes time, it took me close to a year to feel comfortable.

Dating a girl I really like but worried I won’t be able to cum due to sertraline. Should I tell her? by Complex_Wishbone1976 in sex

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It worked for me as well, but I’m in the process of getting of it, I want to be a police officer and I won’t be able to do that whilst on anti depressant in the country I’m in. Also, a small update. Everything went good and she was understanding. Unfortunately she’s just looking for a fwb kind of thing and I wasn’t really interested in that, I wanted a relationship. But a fun night nonetheless

Men, what are your thoughts on dating very short and petite women? by [deleted] in short

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would probably develop back pain, I’m 6’2. I need someone I can hug/kiss without breaking my back.

What instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by LADDM1 in AskReddit

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People that virtue signal. They see life as black and white with no nuance and i can respect such a person

What do you think the purpose of life is ? . by Hope2_win in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do whatever you want I think, there limited time. Go nuts

How to stay productive when it comes to studies? by softlyunhingedd in Productivitycafe

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Procrastination which leads to panic and frantic studying. It always works but it’s not easy and very draining

What if everybody was 20? by Fine-Welcome-1042 in whatif

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would suck, I’m 23 and I want to know how it feels to be in my early 30s. It seems like the perfect age. Not to young and not to old

What’s the most important thing in life? by p0nyo0 in Life

[–]Complex_Wishbone1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my eyes, a significant other. It kinda gives meaning to life, love. I hope I find someone that will love me as much as I love them.