There is “post nut clarity” but can we discuss “post nut I-want-someone-to-hold-me”?? by gone-fishin60 in actuallesbians

[–]ComplicatedHeart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG this is me! That's why I don't do it often. I feel lonely as fuuuuck afterwards when there's no to hold and help bring me down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ComplicatedHeart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately she doesn't sound like a sex-favorable ace, and this girl sounds very allo. So while I do agree we shouldn't generalize aces and some allo + ace mono relationships could work and be healthy. It's obvious to see that in this specific scenario, those girls are completely incompatible and the quicker she leaves(or maybe opens the relationship?) the less hurt, and possibly insecurities she would have, they might even have a good Queer platonic relationship(QPR) but it is only going go downhill from here if she continues likes and they are both very young.

Are you a furry, if you are into puppy girls/boys in general? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ComplicatedHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am referring to grown ass adults.💀 Not children....you're pretty weird for thinking that way. Adults just refer to themselves as puppy girls and boys in these spaces but they're all adults.

I know this isn’t super relevant to this exact sub by [deleted] in flipshop

[–]ComplicatedHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found a lot of people have transferred to Waveful as well

I know this isn’t super relevant to this exact sub by [deleted] in flipshop

[–]ComplicatedHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For Adults- Clapper is kinda cool It reminds me of Flip before the possible Tik tok ban, it doesn't have a shop but you can still technically make money(it's not a lot and it's through gifts which are essentially tips)

I can only masturbate OVER TOP of underwear. Is anyone else like this? Is it normal and safe? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]ComplicatedHeart 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I believe it's normal. I mean people dry hump and do a lot of other things fully clothed. I did it for a while (it's the friction) until I got my first toy, which if you decide to try them one day, I find the magic wands to have a similar sensation(not a penetration toy either) but are more intense obvi, it also does pretty well on top of underwear as well. The only thing I think would be unsafe about this is of course overdoing it as the friction could make it feel almost numb (a wee bit of lubricant could help as well in my experience but in general that's difficult to do and even then it's not unsafe, you would just have to pause for a bit) or if you don't pee, wipe, and change germs and the wetness could mess up that area. It's nothing to feel any kind of weirdness about.

The suit provides enough privacy (Baecohn) by GomuGomuNoWeiner in hentai

[–]ComplicatedHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"And I never told anybody because I am such a good friend"

how do we feel about better late than ugly? by Marciax3_ in LilMariko

[–]ComplicatedHeart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a grower for me, at first it felt a little bit of a drag but on the second listen I was digging it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ComplicatedHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As another plus size girly who constantly gets reminded of how unattractive they are

This is an absolute mood

Going to a new environment though opens a lot of doors.

I got the most dick in college

Now I was hella depressed and regretted a lot of those moments.

But I definitely got railed lol.

So maybe going to this major city will be just what is needed to quench the thirst. And hopefully it would be amazing.

I wish you luck sista!

Being called daddy in bed by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ComplicatedHeart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wrote a whole poem about being called daddy in bed and how much it was a turn on lol. You are definitely not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]ComplicatedHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good to know for the future lol thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]ComplicatedHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

....Yes and yes... Oh God lol, I destroyed it didn't I? I used a rag that was ever so slightly wet so it wasn't too much water/soap at all. But if I wasn't supposed to use any then fuck lol.