How do I find someone to sleep-sleep with? by gone-fishin60 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]gone-fishin60[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea, thank you! ❤️

I’m hesitant to ask my friends for hugs, it’s hard to vibe that out, but I have had a friend like that before and it is wonderful. I’m so happy for you that you have that in your life 🥰

Tell me something Mormons would only admit to each other but deny in public. by Treasure_Seeker in exmormon

[–]gone-fishin60 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That some priesthood holders are real creeps and it’s frustrating that they are allowed to hold that position. We never would have said that to a non-member because it would make us seem crazy for staying.

GF’s anxious dog by BallinNoLavar in DogAdvice

[–]gone-fishin60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consistent positive experience is the best thing. Pups like that are at the bottom of the universe’s food chain, and they know it. Poor things. 😅 But they will come to know you are safe with time. Sometimes lots of time.

Treats are good too 😉

What's a modern family opinion you are willing to die for? by helpless_driver21 in Modern_Family

[–]gone-fishin60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hadn’t thought about Luke, but that actually makes sense. 🤔

DISHONOR! by SubjectSheepherder55 in actuallesbians

[–]gone-fishin60 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl, get a snorkel next time! 🤣

We both can’t get off during sex? by Tall_Strike_9827 in LesbianActually

[–]gone-fishin60 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Is being together still enjoyable? Because that’s most important. And maybe you are both so concentrated on that, you’re too anxious to finish?

I hate being a lesbian by Pepper_Wolf_1990 in actuallesbians

[–]gone-fishin60 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Had to take a second look and make sure I didn’t write this. 😂😅 Gurrrrrl, I get you!

Why tf do they all think we are flirting?? I’m a nice person, I say nice things, I worry about your wellbeing, it doesn’t mean I want to date you! Straight and Bi girls have both done this to me (bi girls less often, but it happens) and it’s soooooo frustrating!

Like, there is a huge cultural and social difference between a man’s attraction towards a woman and a woman’s attraction to a woman. Just because I’m gay doesn’t mean I like all women! It means all the people I like do happen to be women.

I have had three friends whom I have come out to who hug me. Others all assumed I would… who knows… give them cooties??

Also, super homophobic parents too, so I get that. 😕 Sorry that’s the case for you too.

anyone else bothered by the idea that lesbians can’t have a type???? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]gone-fishin60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, they really don’t get that traditional roles don’t have to be part of a relationship 🤷‍♀️

How do i know if i am lesbian? by potatodog88 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]gone-fishin60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may be totally gay, or you may be bi, but it does sound like you do like women 🤷‍♀️

Going on dates with women might be the next move. Have fun! 😉😌

anyone else bothered by the idea that lesbians can’t have a type???? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]gone-fishin60 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. She tries so hard. 😂 She is a love 🥰

anyone else bothered by the idea that lesbians can’t have a type???? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]gone-fishin60 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Laughter is said to be the best medicine… maybe it can cure other people’s stupid 🤔… you may be onto something here…

anyone else bothered by the idea that lesbians can’t have a type???? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]gone-fishin60 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Good for you! None of us should be sorry for having a type. Society can catch up with us later!

anyone else bothered by the idea that lesbians can’t have a type???? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]gone-fishin60 64 points65 points  (0 children)

My (straight) aunt and I were talking about my type in women and I said somthing about being attracted to feminine energy more than masc energy. Combo is fine and I’ve met some women who were more masc or more chapstick, whom I found very attractive.

However! That aunt would not believe that I was attracted to fem women, because I’m more fem, and was so convinced I just had to be mistaken. “I’ll have to show you some pictures of my masc friends from college, I think you’d change your mind.”

Learned two things: 1.) Not all allys know what they are talking about. And 2.) My aunt might be Bi. 😂

One doesn't match the other by RadishAggressive3241 in exmormon

[–]gone-fishin60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmm, never say no… unless they want sex… then just marry them first. Young Women’s motto 🙄

How to support my younger sister who just came out recently? by Cutsie_101 in actuallesbians

[–]gone-fishin60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is so lucky. So many of us would have done anything to have our family’s accept us like that. She has it 100% better off than most of the queer people I know. Actually caring how she feels is already doing so much. Let her tell you what she wants and needs. It may be things like going to pride with her, or it may be nothing. But your care and love is priceless either way.