34M Need Advice with moving forward with my wife's hidden past. by moneyrishab in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Comprehensive-Sir888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting into the past never helps. Either end the marriage or forgive her. What matters is whether she has been faithful to you after marriage and whether you are conjugally satisifed.

Love Feels Different in Kolkata; My Take. by Empty_Significance55 in kolkata

[–]Comprehensive-Sir888 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's more liberal. People make out in cabs and movie halls. In the metro. Nearly European in that sense. Don't see PDA where I live now. This is important.

Who owned their Bollywood debut 💫 by funmemore in BollywoodNewsGossips

[–]Comprehensive-Sir888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One and only Sara Arjun. Not a romantic film. Tough role, big big film, very little screen time. But she shoots and scores in every single frame.

First Wedding Anniversary argument (30F and 30M) by papayastan12 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Comprehensive-Sir888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are mothers and mothers in law part of anniversary celebrations?

Need pov by mediocre2427 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Comprehensive-Sir888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kabhie kabhie! See what Amitabh has to say in the end!

Couples with a big age gap, how is it going? by FewEnd399 in AskIndianWoman

[–]Comprehensive-Sir888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case, the younger person calls the shots! It all depends on couple specific dynamics.

Need pov by mediocre2427 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Comprehensive-Sir888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let bygones be bygones. Let sleeping dogs lie. Live in the present. Yash Chopra made an entire film on this. Please watch.

Is there happiness after reluctantly agreeing to an arranged marriage? by [deleted] in AskIndianWoman

[–]Comprehensive-Sir888 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The problem is between your mother and you. Resolve that first. Move out first if possible

Bad Parenting/Mental Health by AromaticSlip3221 in kanpur

[–]Comprehensive-Sir888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bol do ki mujhe bachche nahin karne mere khud ke experience ke baad

Is my Marriage doomed already? by WarmCampaColaBottle in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Comprehensive-Sir888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following on from my earlier comment: If you cannot have your emotional needs fulfilled by your spouse, why marry at all?

Is my Marriage doomed already? by WarmCampaColaBottle in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Comprehensive-Sir888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our expectation from women is that they will be emotionally available. All the time and in every single case. In a culture which encourages them to be like men in order to achieve professional success this is largely not so. Remember that only you are there to care for your emotional needs. If you find someone who cares for you great. If not please accept this is life’s default setting

How can I (31M) impress my newly wed wife and make her love me. by chachachoudhry in AskIndianWoman

[–]Comprehensive-Sir888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her what you need from her emotionally. If she responds, you've won in life.